Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

Lucky is a definite, :D was never in my goal to get her, and have NEVER thought I would. The first night was a lucky, make or break thing... fortunately, it made. Phew.





She is definitely a keeper, when I first saw her, it was looks, going in deeper (ahem...) she is really innocent and nice. Really a good wife, yet she loves me deeply as well.

She was doing it without realising it actually, I also didn't want to tell her or highlight it to her. She was merely just being herself. It would seem like it's what she wants internally, not really outright lying but caught in a situation where she's in bed with me, I guess guilt pushed her to do so.

I'm moving on (fast-forwarding) to where I slowly teach her sex is not just about penetration, there are many ways to achieve happiness, penetration just helps to finish off.





I'm her second man bro, she never had another before and after marriage. At this stage I didn't suspect much until it's obvious - she never enjoyed and had a good sex experience with Eric. Don't think I will be covering this conversation as it's lengthy.

So in short, I gave her the pleasure she never really experienced :)






At that time, between 25-35 for both of us :D I gave a slightly larger range. But if you factor her marriage period, me having my own car and a place to stay, you arga arga can guess also.





More than a gem, she is a stone that's so precious it's out of the world :) I'm really blessed by the time I had with her.

Just wish she was more 'fun' from the start, but no complains once I opened her up more :)

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

Short update, :D

Don't 'cb gog' please. I will emo later, hahaha.


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gog: Are we going for BS?

J(anice): Mmm...

There was a sign of hesitation from her, she sipped her drink via the straw and just looked around.





gog: Back to my place?

She didn't say no, didn't make any noise, just looked down at her drink. I smiled in my heart, this girl hor...really unpredictable.

We finished up our drinks and walked to the car, in the carpark, I tapped on her hand, but she withdrew them from me. Understandably, we're in public, I shouldn't cause problems for her too. Rule #1 in affairs... NEVER hurt the person you like or fuck. Rule #2 Learn when to let go.




I can't remember much as it was such a load off my shoulders, the burden, the worry. I just kissed her and took her in my bed again, of course this time I remember her bra is from the front. I believe I did finish off in her again. She always likes to use her legs to hold me so tight that I can't pull out. Not my fault.

We didn't talk about BS, we didn't talk about church, she was happy in bed with me and we cuddled after the sex.

Although her IVF failed, she gained something else - ME.




It was about near 12mn.


J(anice): I got to go.

Janice sat up on my bed, pulling my blanket covering herself. I don't know WHY she still needs to do so. I held her hand and she smiled at me.





J: Don't be like this, don't make me unwilling to go home. I still have a husband to go home to.

gog: I'll pick you up later for church?

J: Of course, if not how do I get to church? You have to serve me ma.

I raised an eyebrow and she suddenly knew what I was going to do with regards to that last sentence

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

Godsend gog to J… hope Eric is cuckold, too….

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

She want that gog baby batter in her

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

So it is her fault. You cb lah hahahaa :D

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

You repeatedly cum inside her without wearing condom. Won't it make her pregnant?

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

Being a fairly elderly man, there are only a handful of threads I read and get a hard on plus precum.
Thanks TS, very nice of you to share your story.
Women can be rather conflicting. On one hand, can tell you it's wrong to have adultery, on the other hand, they are coming back for more.
Why so complicated? It's either a yes or a no.
The religion kind of making it even more complicated. Anyway, I reckon the story ends bitterly. However, just remember the sweet bit. In fact, TS, you are a real bastard. Can tell J was really into you, versus L. That one is a real slut to just use and dump.

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

Hehe... slowly bro... slowly.





Coming to that... it's good baby batter ok... lol




Who who.. whose fault? Siang? Hahaha.




As shared in the original thread, surprisingly, all the sessions were safe and she didn't get pregnant, mostly after opening up, she prefers my sperm elsewhere thereafter, no longer inside. She learned that sperm is a delicacy... :D



You aren't that old bro, don't say 'elderly'. Everybody has their youth once :D

Contradictions are what makes life worth living, Christian yet, adultery, yet try to justify and repent but ends up coming back for more, I'll say it's hard to explain, and sometimes I still feel bad, it was a good time, and full of wonderful moments, not of lust but of love, but like you mentioned, all things come to an end.

It was not a bitter ending, but sometimes, somethings HAVE to end. There is no future in this relationship. She would never be fully mine, neither would we ever be fully together. The church itself wouldn't agree with her divorce as it's not due to infidelity of her husband and won't agree with our adultery as well to even wed us. That would pain her and put her in a bad light. Why hurt her husband, her kid, her faith, her church and her? If I get hurt, it's only me. I strongly believe that I should never hurt any one I get to fuck, even Lindi.

If I can make J happy eventually, even if I'm left heartbroken, isn't it worth it? 4 years of happiness, is that too little to even want more or even want to try for the impossible of being together?

I'm thankful for what I have, for who I have, having two girls to fuck at the same time with one loving me and the other well like you say, fuck and dump, (maybe a few others too) is sufficient.

Knowing when to start something is important, :) knowing when to END, is just as important.

Don't end up in the news for the wrong reasons. When women ends something. They do it cleanly without regrets. I have none on my end. It's a beautiful (and lustful) story for me. Which I started out of memories in the earlier thread that now spiralled into the full story of J and me.

Thanks for the kind sharing, appreciate it.

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

To each its own. About the duration, what's more important is, you had it, being there done that.
There are some other people who dates and marries one person and think life is really all about being faithful to one and only. Then when the relationship does not work out, worst, find out the other party has been seeing others, then the world comes crashing down.
While others envy you for having both J and L, the effort to maintain them both can be very challenging. Worst, when still going to church and try to look devoted and holy is equally tough.
All these shall remain a dark secret in one corner of your heart. May still cause a little stir down south when think of those intimate moment, both mental and sexual.

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

"Knowing when to start something is important, :) knowing when to END, is just as important.

Don't end up in the news for the wrong reasons. When women ends something. They do it cleanly without regrets."

How true gog!

Mine spanned over 30 years. Got to know her when she was 20 and a part-timer in the company and I was doubled her age, and married with 2 kids. She was a traditional kampong girl from Malaysia and her parents worked hard to send her bro and her, the eldest in the family, to Singapore for better education and careers so that they can help support them in their old age.

True to her upbringing she resisted getting involved with a married man and do not want to be the 3rd party to break up a family. But eventually she succumbed to my persistence and we were lovers till she finally saw no more hope that we can ever be together! She initiated a clean break and never looked back, not even letting me know where she shifted to. We only msg each other once in a long while...

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

不在乎天长地久，只在乎曾经拥有

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

As much as some of us want to say it's not adultery, it's not flings, it's just two people who meet at the wrong time, it's not good to 'lure' a lady to a relationship that is not leading to any happy ending. Worst, she remains in it with the hope that eventually will lead to marriage and only gives up years later that's way past her prime.
While we all can say it's her choice, we can't deny we are enjoying the best of both worlds.
Ain't trying to play Saint, the ocean is big enough, just pick the other fishes. Never know when we might chance upon a crazy one that ends with tragedy.

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

"Knowing when to start something is important, :) knowing when to END, is just as important.

Don't end up in the news for the wrong reasons. When women ends something. They do it cleanly without regrets."

How true gog...(msg deleted.)

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

With hindsight comes wisdom. But life and fate don't alway deal the best hand. When one is young and horny animal instinct takes over and that is why there are so many stories in sbf about sex and infidelity.

Just as in the case of Janice, one would never imagine her falling into sin. But one can never discount the power of feeling intense orgasm and love over the mind. Perhaps it's God's mistake for using orgasm to instigate the desire for procreation. It's only the wicked human who have learnt how to extract the pleasures of sex without procreation.

Re: My Boss & Colleague - Janice
 

Living the dream is what everybody wants, but of course it comes at a cost, at a sacrifice, it depends how far one would go for it.

I love married women to be honest, it's just exciting for me. Lindi was a given, how she is so.. touchy, while Janice was unexpected. Good thing, both are in the same church are too smart to start anything in church especially against any one else to wash their dirty linen in public. Phew.

It does stir me when I think back of the moments we had, the intimacy, bad or good, it's still memories, I unfortunately don't just keep the good ones, even the bad ones too. Only bad memories can make you a real human. Don't just keep the good ones :)







It's actually good for her, I will not pester her, nor use any media to threaten her to come back to me. Once a fling, is a fling, had your fill, had your fun... and you know it's going nowhere, you won't leave your family (which is right thing), then clean cut.

The pain is with her as she has to cleanly cut off all attachments, while you can seek solace at home. She cannot, she did the right thing too. Many cases I see these days are due the guys can't let go and think that women are just a fuck toy, if they want to leave, I threaten them back to fuck me for free.






This is true, whilst many might feel I lost her eventually (I didn't really LOSE her) but this is life, I started something I know has no good ending.

Put it this way. I see her as a perfect wife, lover, mother, Christian, 100% perfect. If she would leave her husband for me, then she's no longer perfect. And if she can do that to her husband, then what's stopping her from leaving me also?

Best is to cut the line at when she's mine, we had a good time of love-lie-lust-lindi (oops the last one is incorrect) - 3Ls, then there's all there is to it. Matters not the ending, it's the process in a relationship that counts.

That's just me, maybe I'm too emotional in this sense. There are casual fun partners as well, but those don't connect deeply as what Janice does to me.





Correct. It is Adultery, and it is wrong, there's no two ways about it. Where I come from, it's strict as is and it is. I'm not doubting that. It's just the opportunity and how fondness grows on you and the wrong push at the right time led to a debauchery affair.

No angels nor explanation further needed here actually. I'm not going to defend my actions neither is Janice going to defend hers. We both know how this will end eventually like all affairs do.

If she's not married and I am, that would really be leading her down the wrong path. As of the relationship between me and Janice, it's no end in sight, we didn't think that far, but of course, deep down. I know.

I have picked other fishes, but those are basically for fun, the connection and feel is just different, sure it gets me off, it gets the girls off, but that's all. You want to cuddle, chat, talk ... nah, they're not keen in it.

The connection for me with ladies varies at a very close friend level somehow, they love to talk to me, single or married, they just want to talk and talk and end of it, share their problems with me and ... :D

Thank you for the kind sharing, appreciate the thoughts & frankness, really glad to be able to chat openly and share as well.






There is only so much you can control as human. I'm not perfect, there are many others, who succumb and break after resistance. The important thing is not to play blame, nor tell them it is 'right'. Let them sort it out for themselves, it's either they come back for more, or they stop totally. Have met some Christian girls like that, regrets, and cuts off. Some don't.

For Janice, the push was due to our closeness, time often spent together, to the extent we could finish each other's thoughts, food ideas and more. Praying for each other also opened us up to our weakness, our needs cos the closeness is there. When I poked her on the IVF issue, that was a personal matter which she didn't share with me. Also the time she asked me to pray for her but didn't give me the details? That's because she was sad trying for a baby but kept failing.

This ultimately pushed her into being sensitive and also when I touched her, she felt that love and warmth in a moment of weakness and ... things happened. She realised that although it's sin, she did feel something which she wasn't aware most of the time what 'jealousy' meant over Amy, Lindi.

That said, I'm no prefect Christian myself, I succumbed to my lust and fell with Janice. I do not intend to shy away nor say otherwise. Whatever reasons Janice and myself gave to continue for that 4 years, are excuses. We did commit adultery - PERIOD.

:)