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bro understand your feeling. Seems everywhere woman same :p

agree you made a smart choice and better life now

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should just combined the 2 threads

https://www.sbfsg.net/showthread.php...8#post16253788

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Group still active ????????????

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Not totally sexless, but I suspect you meant sexless after kids arrived? This appears to be very common. When wives or lovers become mothers, they often change to a different mode.

Reading your story, I cannot imagine the bad times you lived with her. :(

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I have said this many times, that sex is rarely, if not never, free. All men will eventually pay for using pussy, especially if the pussy has produced their children for about 20 years as ordered by the courts.

Tougher for ex-spouses to skip paying maintenance

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/tougher-for-ex-spouses-to-skip-paying-maintenance



Part-time clerk S. Chia has been waging a 16-year battle.

Since her divorce in 2001, she has been trying to get her former husband to pay the monthly maintenance of $500 for herself and their two children aged 18 and 20.

Following amendments to the Women's Charter in 2011, a new measure implemented by the authorities gave her extra ammunition: She was able to apply to court to get his employer to pay her directly from his salary. He was then working as a manager.

But he resigned the next month.

So she had to go back to court to apply for yet another enforcement order. He owes her about $10,000 in maintenance arrears.

Her headache underscores the continued challenges that some broken families face in compelling breadwinners to provide financial support, despite more efforts since 2011 to make them do so.

Lawyers say the number of enforcement applications has been gradually falling since 2011, when a host of measures were implemented to tackle the problem.

For example, the courts can direct an employer to pay the defaulter's wages to the person entitled to it, as Ms Chia did.

Divorcees who are remarrying must also make a statutory declaration if they have any maintenance arrears. This is to remind them of their obligations to their former partners and to ensure their new spouses are aware of this.

If the person refuses to make a declaration or if the Registry of Marriages (ROM) suspects he or she is not telling the truth, the ROM will not issue a marriage licence for the couple, said a spokesman for the Ministry of Social and Family Development, under which the ROM comes.

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Yet again, I say that sex is rarely, if not never, free. Around the world, laws are written such that men will be made to pay for the pussies they have used, especially if it has produced their children until they become legal adults (about 20 years).

Credit blacklist effective in getting defaulters to pay up

http://www.straitstimes.com/singapor...ters-to-pay-up



For years, the authorities have been scratching their heads trying to find ways to get deadbeat husbands to pay the maintenance owed to their former wives and children.

And they have found one method that works - putting defaulters on a credit blacklist, making it harder for them to get credit cards and loans such as for housing. Some 80 per cent of the 229 claimants so far on this scheme recovered at least some of the money owed to them.

A credit information and debt recovery firm has collected about $2.5 million on their behalf since the scheme started in 2011, its spokesman told The Straits Times.

A person who is owed maintenance can take the court order to DP's SME Commercial Credit Bureau, which will record the debt and share the information with its more than 800 members, which include banks, retailers and moneylenders.

Being on the blacklist makes it harder for these individuals to obtain loans, said those interviewed.

Re: Group for divorced/sexless marriage/singles
 

You mean the Wechat group? Yes we have increased by a number of members lately :-)

Can add trichard8888

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Add me also..Kel9898

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Add you on Wechart bro :-)

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Add you too bro :-)

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Love Is Blind

Marriage open your eyes.:o:(

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Maybe i shld not come here.

Seeing these threads & i'm about to attach.... (sweats...)

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Attach can still detach. But once vow is made...till death do u part. Anyway all the best bro jeretai

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S Chia has another option.
Walk out of the toxic relationship completely with her head held high. Don't take anything from her ex and save her children from the parental maintenance act in future.

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Hi! Who do I Pm to join thr group?

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You can PM me and give me your Wechat ID. Our group's been pretty active lately :-)

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Lol...many people takes the vow as a joke nowadays ...seen so many divorce until scare to get marry.

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Only wechat group? No wechat then how ah... I was in a almost none existent sex marriage too... until I fed up and divorced him... only heartache is the matrimonial flat I cannot keep even if i can afford to buy over :(

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Is a piece of legal contract to kill each other :mad:

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just sign up for wechat loh. be good to have ladies in the group. so far all testosterone in the chats.

mine is a no sex marriage too. but underlying was a lot of unhappiness and resentment and you really can screw someone that you are angry with about many things.

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Lazy to download and use additional apps leiiiii

Hihi can pm me how to join the grp???

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Hey! I've pmed you but I'm still not added :confused:

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Sorry, I've been very busy lately so seldom come here. Anyway, just added you on Wechat. Cheers! :-)

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Please confirm give me your Wechat ID through PM. Thanks!

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Yes the main reason we use Wechat is for privacy reason. Most of us are not comfortable disclosing our phone number to everybody, which I guess you can understand. It's just a few mins to download and install. Do join us if you like to :-)

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Currently still all guys in the group?

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we have a lady and a few asking to join the group...

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Bro, you are not alone. I had (still having) similar fate like you:

married for 20 years
sex was boring, no spice, no passion, nothing to look forward
no oral sex from her, just little foreplay and then missionary
tried spice her with sex toy, porn, massage, talk dirty. Nothing works. She just not interested
touch her breast, she will cover and turn away
do kinky stuff on her she will not play along and walk away
outside brush her breast or touch her to spice up the mood, she will give me the "killer" stare
always got communication problem
she sees every small issue BIG whether with me, kids or my parents
moods swing most of the time

So......

had affair for 10 years and ended recently but we still keep in touch
sex was heavenly, hotel, parks, carparks, beach, cruise, club, toilet... u name it, we did it. Even after so many years, we were alwasy on fire when we see each other.
if we meet 7 days a week, we will have sex 7 times even during her periods
ended becos she wanted more of my time, gets very jealous (and will quarrel) when she knows i go out with wife
didn't want to hurt my family, especially the kids
miss her alot and still love her alot... but am not willing to pay the price at my family expense