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CR7toPSG 02-08-2022 03:15 PM

If she move to SG with u and will be at you side for the rest of your life, will u retire from this? A genuine question

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Originally Posted by morrissey1209 (Post 21507633)
I chiong because I am in a LDR and my gal is not by my side. When I am with her in China, I don't chiong.

Whatever you want to/need to do, don't let your gal know can liao. They are fucking jealous animals.


Bommi99 02-08-2022 03:18 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Everyone has three faces. One you show your friends and colleagues. One you for to your family. And the last face only you know. So in this case,your desire for massages,MLs and fun is the final face only for you. Only you know that face. Everything in life is fair.

Heartlandlover 02-08-2022 03:47 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Hmm.. since this topic is up.
Can I ask is there such things as emotional cheating vs physically cheating?

Can u accept any of it?
Cos I know cheating wives. Can be normal housewives to office ladies to ML.

LaoCheeHong 02-08-2022 03:48 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by Baddecisions (Post 21511289)
Just sharing my personal account - started visiting MLs when I was single. After that, got attached and married and urge died down. However, after a while, urge came back even though I share a good sex life and intimacy with my partner.

End of the day, it is up to you to decide what you can live with. Some people have guilt, some people no guilt. Some people have devotion, some people no devotion. Some think cheonging is not mutually exclusive to being a family man, as long as your family is still safe and you don't neglect. For me, I have come to terms that this is who I am and the urge will always be there. I stick to only MLs and HJs because I don't want to risk disease and put my partner at risk. Of course, end of day, my priority is still family and if my habits end up putting them at risk one day, then I will stop. For now, journey continues...

Agree Bro! The important thing is whatever you do, don't bring problems home

hhlover 02-08-2022 04:59 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Wondering any bros here up to now in their life only tasted one pussy.. his gf or wife only..

morrissey1209 02-08-2022 06:24 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by CR7toPSG (Post 21512021)
If she move to SG with u and will be at you side for the rest of your life, will u retire from this? A genuine question

Actually yes, there won't be a need to chiong. I am happy around her and with our sex life.

Iceman11 02-08-2022 11:00 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by Mankok (Post 21510258)
Upped you for this post!

Thanks Bro. Upz u in return with my humble points.

Mankok 03-08-2022 12:13 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Bommi99 (Post 21512030)
Everyone has three faces. One you show your friends and colleagues. One you for to your family. And the last face only you know. So in this case,your desire for massages,MLs and fun is the final face only for you. Only you know that face. Everything in life is fair.

What you describe here is very familiar to me. Thou shall be upped :D

bad^boi 03-08-2022 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by hhlover (Post 21512325)
Wondering any bros here up to now in their life only tasted one pussy.. his gf or wife only..

Hahahha then this type of bro unlikely to be in this forum

ash10 03-08-2022 01:08 AM

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Originally Posted by hhlover (Post 21512325)
Wondering any bros here up to now in their life only tasted one pussy.. his gf or wife only..

That would be me, always been curious but don't dare to risk..

jlly 03-08-2022 01:32 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Always keep things physical and transactional. Once you start going to eat, shopping, paktor you gone case liao. Seen friends that burn 6 digits (maybe more cus paiseh to tell me) and end up marriage gone, assets gone worse is the ML/FL also gone cus RTC/RTT/RTV hahaha.

Once in a very very long while you hear happily ever after stories but is like buy Toto… you know you got chance you also won’t risk your whole life or assets try. And even happily ever after also don’t know can happy 10 years or more not…

SwordArt 03-08-2022 01:46 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
I never find ONS or FWB now because I do not want complication in the relationship. used to destroy one relationship because of that.
But as guys, you will have urge. And our partners are not sex slave, they can't satisfy us 100%.
I will still go for a massage maybe once a month or two, and the max I will go is a bj, mostly just hj. Harder to get caught and no emotion involved. And I take it as relaxing service instead of cheating. :p

huareyou 03-08-2022 07:27 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
it's also a matter of time, space and whether you create opportunities for yourself to eat outside.

just be conscious of what you do to avoid the consequences and how you might get caught.

do you want to give into the urge? can you give into the urge? and can you afford to do it - i don't mean $$, but consequences that come if you get caught. to some it may mean freedom.

to me at least, it means losing a lifelong partner that clicks with me; just not well enough to say i don't want to eat outside.

sidjames92 03-08-2022 07:41 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by morrissey1209 (Post 21509514)
Mostly very true. I also have non-religious friends who don't chiong...but very few indeed.

nowadays a lot more who chionged in the past have stopped. partly due to the lack of good supply. so easier to stop and save $$$.

Todtan 03-08-2022 07:57 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Have a transactional relationship.Dont go beyond it.Later get into more money issue and problems of the ML.

morrissey1209 03-08-2022 09:33 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by sidjames92 (Post 21514304)
nowadays a lot more who chionged in the past have stopped. partly due to the lack of good supply. so easier to stop and save $$$.

I have two heavy chiongster friends who did that. Curiousy, one of them was still chionging during the pandemic period, visiting loads of Ks. End up he stop after open up, because he say waste of money.

The pandemic seemed to turn a number of people away from chionging. I myself also reduced drastically compared to the past...

asdfghjk1234 03-08-2022 09:57 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by morrissey1209 (Post 21514510)
I have two heavy chiongster friends who did that. Curiousy, one of them was still chionging during the pandemic period, visiting loads of Ks. End up he stop after open up, because he say waste of money.

The pandemic seemed to turn a number of people away from chionging. I myself also reduced drastically compared to the past...

Yeah same here. Used to once a week or every two week. Now no one jio don't even have the urge to go. Some of my friends also quit after open up. Can save alot

owlette 03-08-2022 10:19 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by morrissey1209 (Post 21514510)
The pandemic seemed to turn a number of people away from chionging. I myself also reduced drastically compared to the past...

I on the other hand during and after pandemic period started to go more often. I also dont understand why.

I have a friend last time before pandemic time jio him go bistro/ktv/pub all that, he will just ask to have simple dinner. Now every few nights jio me go ktv

Laopizhui 03-08-2022 10:40 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Before covid cheong weekly for mostly hj.
Covid time stay low for a while cos I humji
After massage shop open up, only go monthly or urge coming to unbearable. Nowadays go for clean ones more. Bones getting old need proper maintenance.

morrissey1209 03-08-2022 10:54 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Laopizhui (Post 21514644)
Before covid cheong weekly for mostly hj.
Covid time stay low for a while cos I humji
After massage shop open up, only go monthly or urge coming to unbearable. Nowadays go for clean ones more. Bones getting old need proper maintenance.

Same here. Trying to go less than once a month or only when kuku bursting liao. Always trying to psycho myself everytime I PCC that "nah, that is 150 for you, go get a good meal." But this psycho only can work so far only.

Honestly, see my chiongster friends quit, I also wanna quit. If they can do, I think I can too. Or maybe they end up coming back. Hahaha.

Peacekeeping 03-08-2022 11:17 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by morrissey1209 (Post 21514672)
Same here. Trying to go less than once a month or only when kuku bursting liao. Always trying to psycho myself everytime I PCC that "nah, that is 150 for you, go get a good meal." But this psycho only can work so far only.

Honestly, see my chiongster friends quit, I also wanna quit. If they can do, I think I can too. Or maybe they end up coming back. Hahaha.

Usually they quit because they found gf already. They unload in their gf hand, mouth or pussy everyday so there is no need to chiong outside. But quit also can save alot of money lah. Depends what you want.

morrissey1209 03-08-2022 11:25 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by Peacekeeping (Post 21514751)
Usually they quit because they found gf already. They unload in their gf hand, mouth or pussy everyday so there is no need to chiong outside. But quit also can save alot of money lah. Depends what you want.

True for one of them. He stopped because just got married this year. But the other one is long married and already had kids. Still chiong a lot during pandemic but stopped when open up. Say waste of money. He is a damn high earner.

roombc 04-08-2022 01:02 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
i wonder how many cats can reject the smell of fish.. i surrender that i cannot reject.hahahahhaa

Ramsey69 04-08-2022 01:44 AM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by roombc (Post 21516877)
i wonder how many cats can reject the smell of fish.. i surrender that i cannot reject.hahahahhaa

if fish meaning the pussy fishy smell, that one i defo can reject hahaha

CR7toPSG 05-08-2022 03:10 PM

Good on u. Not many men can say that

Quote:

Originally Posted by morrissey1209 (Post 21512614)
Actually yes, there won't be a need to chiong. I am happy around her and with our sex life.


JAVgent 05-08-2022 04:33 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by Peacekeeping (Post 21514751)
Usually they quit because they found gf already. They unload in their gf hand, mouth or pussy everyday so there is no need to chiong outside. But quit also can save alot of money lah. Depends what you want.

usually when the gf upgrades to wife.. the access to hand, mouth and pussy becomes restricted. :p

reddevil3d 05-08-2022 05:29 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
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Originally Posted by JAVgent (Post 21521991)
usually when the gf upgrades to wife.. the access to hand, mouth and pussy becomes restricted. :p

That's why there a saying gf or wife material :p

sladang 05-08-2022 08:37 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by JAVgent (Post 21521991)
usually when the gf upgrades to wife.. the access to hand, mouth and pussy becomes restricted. :p

Yeah, even for normal pussy sex it's oni restricted to missionary nia, no more multi position liao, no more do on chair, do on sofa, do on table, do on ladder, do on staircase, do on bathroom, do on store room, do on kitchen etc etc, all no more liao :D ..

victor125 05-08-2022 11:17 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
remember that working ladies are experts in their field, the skills they learn from how many cocks of practice. likewise for all the pornstars as well, they are performers and entertainers.

don't confuse those with that you get from your partner. otherwise you will always be disappointed. if you are lucky and your partner is amazing and everything else good, treasure those sex.

is also why sometimes men will risk being with crazy girlfriend for crazy good sex.

RelaFL 08-08-2022 12:09 PM

Re: How many of you chiong despite having a partner?
 
Just do anything but dont get caught.
and be safe don't to commando style.
most important go back home.

Remember you only have one wife/partner. unless you want to change to a ML /FL wife.


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