Originally Posted by Newtonyork
(Post 22049823)
I'd like to second all that Starscream23, I couldn't agree more. Noey of BKK Happy is one of the best providers in Bangkok these days, bar none. She's one of the reasons I truly miss Bangkok and wish I was back there more than ever. Damn my financials. She and Haru really made my trip that time worth it. Not sure if Haru is still around or if she'll be back, but Noey alone is worth the trip. I'd like to think that I kinda helped a little in popularizing her a while back with my reports, God knows she's worth every dollar, I made sure to tip her good and for the fellow samsters who partake in time with her, please tip her well too. She's the whole package. I tell ya fellas, I miss Bangkok, it's like a drug. The whole idea was to fuck like crazy to get over the lockdown blues, and then get on with my stupid life, but instead it's done the opposite. It's made me want to go to Bangkok even more. Like a drug, I can't get enough. I'm this close to biting the bullet and just saying fuck it, fuck my financials and fly back to Thailand and go nutz again. You only live once.
Put it this way, if you live long enough to know that you're about to die, I betcha one of the last things you'll think about is how you coulda just spent your dough fucking babes, instead of it just sitting in an account somewhere for the potentiality of a long life. What's the point of a long life anyway if it's gonna be miserable and fuck-less? Live fast, die young. Not that I'm even young anymore. It's a tough balancing act now, but at the same time with more countries opening up, and more tourists going back to Thailand, I might not have the same level of having Bangkok all to myself like I did last summer. I notice too that prices have definitely gone back up to catch up with all the tourists going back. I gather that when I went last year, it was just the beginning of the re-openings, that's why I could afford more and better. With the exact same Bangkok trip setup, time of year, hotel, flights, etc, 2023 is gonna cost me at least 20% more. I tell ya fellas, you dudes out there in South East Asia, gettin' to go to Bangkok whenever you like, you guys got it lucky. Don't ever leave. With each year that passes in my miserable life, I'm more and more drawn to the idea of retiring in Thailand. Just like Noey is the whole package, I do sincerely feel that Thailand is a country that has the whole package. It's safe, affordable, great food, and even the weather doesn't seem so bad, especially with how bad this winter has been here. I've experienced some real brutal tropical heat in my life, but compared to the incredible winter cold here, maybe, just maybe I can deal with the heat again.
But my life is full of ironies. I wouldn't be surprised if by the time I finally get to go back to Bangkok, Noey retires or something. She's a real gem, a real peach. She's the type that some guy will eventually try to marry and bring back to Japan, Singapore, etc. But these Thai girls don't leave Thailand so easily, the fact that they do all that they do for their family back home in the village somewhere, goes to show their dedication to mom and dad is pure iron. I don't even think it's an Asian thing, I think it's mainly a Thai thing, just how much pressure they put on the girls in the family to provide is beyond explanation. Having gotten to know so many Thai girls in the business of what they do, it's 90% boils back down to the family in the village. And you know on one level or another it's true, sure it comes with a heavy dose of sob story, but it's anecdotally confirmed time and time again. You don't really find that in other cultures, anywhere. It's sad in a way, cause it almost feels like a kind of familial blackmail. Like these girls were born, and honestly no one asks to be born, and their destinies, their fates are already sealed from day one. Poor village, with little to no educational opportunities, somehow expected to care for the families expenses and what not. Most of them will say their families don't know what they do in the big city, but you can see it in their eyes, that the parents do know, but just don't really care cause they want the cash and are somehow okay with their daughters doing all that.
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