Originally Posted by alphaguy20 (Post 16756028)

got telegram group?

Originally Posted by Ckott44 (Post 16766153)

Can add me ? Johnny1708

Thanks

Originally Posted by stlover72 (Post 16806416)

Bro, can add me too. Oliver1152
I hv some questions to ask regarding divorce and my wife is PR. Thanks.

Originally Posted by topcook1 (Post 16808679)

Add me please at lukee3113

Originally Posted by Secretaffair123 (Post 16831976)

Add me -lovesex1373

Originally Posted by herotan (Post 16834121)

this is interesting. TS bro, wouldn't it be hard to keep track on topics or questions asked/replied in WeChat? I can imagine the ultra traffic taking place there. I married for 10years and have been sexless marriage for the pass 3 or 4 years. A bad incident happened between us and I stopped having sex with my wife ever since. A wall of pillows erected between us on our bed. heehee.

Originally Posted by RTTO (Post 16532096)

Bro, you are not alone. I had (still having) similar fate like you:

married for 20 years
sex was boring, no spice, no passion, nothing to look forward
no oral sex from her, just little foreplay and then missionary
tried spice her with sex toy, porn, massage, talk dirty. Nothing works. She just not interested
touch her breast, she will cover and turn away
do kinky stuff on her she will not play along and walk away
outside brush her breast or touch her to spice up the mood, she will give me the "killer" stare
always got communication problem
she sees every small issue BIG whether with me, kids or my parents
moods swing most of the time

So......

had affair for 10 years and ended recently but we still keep in touch
sex was heavenly, hotel, parks, carparks, beach, cruise, club, toilet... u name it, we did it. Even after so many years, we were alwasy on fire when we see each other.
if we meet 7 days a week, we will have sex 7 times even during her periods
ended becos she wanted more of my time, gets very jealous (and will quarrel) when she knows i go out with wife
didn't want to hurt my family, especially the kids
miss her alot and still love her alot... but am not willing to pay the price at my family expense

Originally Posted by stonned (Post 16840329)

We don't dwell on any topic for very long so it's no problem. It's very impromptu so we just chat anytime and then move on. Yes sometimes it's a bit to follow when there are a couple hundred of messages at a time :-D

Your experience is quite similar with some of us in the group. It's interesting how things are so similar with many of us.

Originally Posted by RTTO (Post 16532096)

Bro, you are not alone. I had (still having) similar fate like you:

married for 20 years
sex was boring, no spice, no passion, nothing to look forward
no oral sex from her, just little foreplay and then missionary
tried spice her with sex toy, porn, massage, talk dirty. Nothing works. She just not interested
touch her breast, she will cover and turn away
do kinky stuff on her she will not play along and walk away
outside brush her breast or touch her to spice up the mood, she will give me the "killer" stare
always got communication problem
she sees every small issue BIG whether with me, kids or my parents
moods swing most of the time

So......

had affair for 10 years and ended recently but we still keep in touch
sex was heavenly, hotel, parks, carparks, beach, cruise, club, toilet... u name it, we did it. Even after so many years, we were alwasy on fire when we see each other.
if we meet 7 days a week, we will have sex 7 times even during her periods
ended becos she wanted more of my time, gets very jealous (and will quarrel) when she knows i go out with wife
didn't want to hurt my family, especially the kids
miss her alot and still love her alot... but am not willing to pay the price at my family expense

Originally Posted by Dobernite (Post 16879965)

I was faithful for 26 years but sexless for 4 years plus 2 decades of emotional abuse...finally just told my self to hell with it and visited FL for release. Wanting to end the marriage off but just never quite got the courage ...kids are lovely and in University... feeling really sucks thinking how life has passed me by and I am still not doing anything.

Originally Posted by cocky1234 (Post 16883317)

Bro, please add me, Alexmason8686
Thank you

Originally Posted by Datingafter35 (Post 16890690)

Can add Tiggeraurelius.

Originally Posted by Dobernite (Post 16879965)

I was faithful for 26 years but sexless for 4 years plus 2 decades of emotional abuse...finally just told my self to hell with it and visited FL for release. Wanting to end the marriage off but just never quite got the courage ...kids are lovely and in University... feeling really sucks thinking how life has passed me by and I am still not doing anything.

Originally Posted by ttbbxx (Post 16906502)

bro,

can you please add me?
ID is ttbbxxjj

thank you.

Originally Posted by stonned (Post 16892110)

We have so many similar stories in the group. Wonder what is going on with SG wives these days. No wonder the FL/ML trade is blooming :(

Originally Posted by HelloAngel (Post 16921963)

What's wrong with Sg wives? I think sex comes naturally when the lady's emotional tank is filled. Talk to your wife, take a vacation, do something different with her. It may help. I left my hb cos he was too contented with life and I was paying for everything in the household. I want a hb that looks after me n my child, not depending on me to maintain the house. It's tiring. So I left..

Originally Posted by stonned (Post 16943990)

.....somehow the wives just not responding much. Hence I really don't know what's wrong with them.

Originally Posted by xchange (Post 16949959)

From my observations, the parents have a lot of influence in this. Many women only go for separation/divorce because her parents are at the back supporting her-very often because she is the princess/only daughter of the family who must be treated like crown jewel. Career minded women also tend to be more prone to this.
So if you marry the spoilt princess of an ambitious family -be warned.
I even heard one case where a career minded women told her husband that her job is only to give birth but NOT TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY.If the husband want kids, he has to take care of them!

Originally Posted by HelloAngel (Post 16921963)

What's wrong with Sg wives? I think sex comes naturally when the lady's emotional tank is filled. Talk to your wife, take a vacation, do something different with her. It may help. I left my hb cos he was too contented with life and I was paying for everything in the household. I want a hb that looks after me n my child, not depending on me to maintain the house. It's tiring. So I left..

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin (Post 16980120)

I fully disagree with this. I used to pay for the flat for expenses as much as possible until sometimes i had nothing left for myself. She fucks with other men and then blames me for being not good enough. Naturally no sex.

It depends not on filling up the emotional tank. It depends on the wife's character. And she's sgrean.