Re: SPA incident, was I in the wrong?
 

As the general saying goes. Mai Hiam buay pai. Ai Hiam, kenna sai

Re: SPA incident, was I in the wrong?
 

Again, its all about demand supply.

Most if not all men like to be massaged by pretty SYT, so they have no short of supply of customers. So why put in so much effort when most of them just came for the 5 minutes HJ? If there is one who feels short-changed, then so be it, there will be other customers.

If you are not pretty or not young, then bo bian, got to provide good massage so that customer will come back again.

No right, no wrong, some ML just know what their competitive advantage is, and exploit it to the full.

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You know, all these years I've always wondered what happened between you and Sophia :D

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Dun waste time to complain liao la... go recce more places...

you want to be serious cheongster must have different type of spa in address book.

1) gd massage no special
2) ok massage + ok special (hj)
3) lousy massage + gd special (hj, bj)
4) lousy massge + full special (fj)

so depend what ur mood feel like... u choose 1 place and go... i see some pple come here kpkb want everything solid one... wah lau eh.. you slowly find ok...

ah bo i tell u how... u go to 1) then go to 4)... go 2 spa then everything settle... then sure say no money... eh friend.. no such thing as cheap and gd ok.... u want gd massage then dun think abt special... u want good fuck then dun think about massage....

if the ml can massage and is gd fuck can give her olympic medal liao... :rolleyes:

Re: SPA incident, was I in the wrong?
 

Now a lot ML has this practice, finish everything in 45-50 mins. So they can ask their next customer to come earlier and get ready in the room first. But this normally happen on those ML who always fully booked.

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It’s an ‘unwritten ruling’ in such spas.
Usually, the gals are just workers surviving on the hourly massage fee, which is not a lot (usually ~$10+/- maybe ?)
The more ‘ethical ones’ might give you a good 30-45 mins massage, hoping you’ll take their special.
The bad ones dun even bother, maybe giving you 15-20 mins piano massage before popping GQ.
Not surprised to see why they are so upset - for every ‘clean’ customer they take they might only earn $10+/- per hour, if lucky they might get $5-10 tips.
If they take up a ‘dirty’ customer they might earn $50 (or more?) + tips.
It’s all opportunity costs.

After writing so much, I have to say I DO NOT support such attitude and behavior altho I know their 苦衷。it’s just like nowadays so many so-called legit shops into those 保养massage aka prostate/kidney massage. Once the gal know you taking normal massage they Sian 1/2. Normal massage earn only like $15-20/hr + tips (usually not much) but prostate massage you might earn like $40-50++ / hr + tips (can be a lot if you know how to please the customer). See the diff?

That’s why it’s so important to read FR before trying. At least you know what to expect and won’t end up gettin a grandma and rejecting her!

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Nowadays they are even asking for $100 tips.... KC effect very strong, be careful!!

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Especially the 2 letter spa in the city area which has 3 shops

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$100 tips? Might as well go and rob!!

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This brother sums it all

I am for ML for 1 and 2.

For 1, after some time, the ML may give in to HJ but it will be hushed hushed..always very gian for this as it is some special thing unlocked and the huge excitement. hehe

I have something like 2) but I will rate the massage above average as it is quite value for $ with backstepping/cupping and I am a huge fan of cupping. HJ is average, cannot suck nipples but can roam..and there is some veins pulling to imitate juagen which works well for me. For HJ, i really think it depends on chemistry.

I am a huge sucker for 1) which can lead to HJ after some sessions. Open to swap but guys, do not be choosy la.


Some brothers want good massage, SYT, full service, tight body, blah blah blah..cannot have everything. As long as do not reject type, it is fine if the massage is strong. HJ is a bonus but can always reject HJ if it is a "clean" spa.

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Once a ML told me she only earns $5 for an hour of massage which would cost me $50.

They can't possibly survive on that.

I suppose if u really want a good massage ONLY, go to a legit massage shop. If not, in the end, both parties end up unhappy.

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From my experience, Those with good massage, even if can hj, usually not shiok one..
Hj quite mechanical, not sensual.

Not expecting the sky but just my observation..