genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

do u have female friends that you hangout (not acquaintances or childhood chummy that u know of like forever) n its purely platonic as in u never expected more from the friendship? especially after u are married.

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Oh yes there are but honestly that's because I find them unattractive in a sexual way :p & also the husbands are friends so definitely won't even think twice about their wives.

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normally i just try to bonk all of them , just for the hell of it :p

even the ugly fat ones just to see if i have it in me

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you damn gross leh u. respect your "tool" la.
anyone also take.... wa lao.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

You conveniently forgot to include those whom you cannot get your hands on.. Not every girl you want and is after become yours, no? :D

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

i think those he cnt get but wanted he would hv fantasize them like crazy so not platonic

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alamak really zero platonic
hmmm....

i always thot some or afew rare ones could be genuinely platonic.. until last week a guy I hang out with once a while suddenly tell me he feels like hugging me aft a coffee (not alcohol so no we are not drunk) n i was taken aback n he claimed that a "joke"... but my faith of it being platonic is abit shaken...thts why i m here to ask our bros here who I am sure would give me the most honest answer... if its zero chance platonic i would need to stay away fr him cos he is married.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

if both r old and/or ugly sure 101% platonic :p

I just encounter similar case too, she knows i'm married n someore got lover but recently I realize she starts to develop feeling with me. I engage her as a mate to talk some personal matters especially relationships with wife n lover. but recently she is not interested to touch the topic n show jealousy towards my lover :(

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exactly! Haha. .

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

Talk about hugs. I think when a male friend offers a hug, it meant he must have some degree of fondness for you. :cool:

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

yes i have :)

it takes alot of maturity for that though.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

If a woman looks like shit, the relationship will be platonic.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

I have platonic relationship with my tenants and neighbours. They asked me out for makans and badminton downstairs. Sometimes breakfast too if we leave the house at same timing. Does that count?

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yes agree :D

those u can just do, those cann't just simulate of doing ...

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

u lack something fundamental compared to man, of cos not count lar sis :p

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

not even possible. there is always "sexual" elements in the relationship.

sorry, that is the reality.

cheers,

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

the reality is, there is for some ppl, not many..
that you have not (yet) experienced this does not make it impossible..

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Not possible for me....

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

I could easily have a platonic relationship with any of these women...


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Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

I don't even want any relation with them, be it plantonic or not :D

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me too bro, almost vomit :p

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You won't start a relationship with any of them because they are not sexually attractive.

However, if you met them in the course of your daily life and they were kind, helpful and considerate and helped you in many ways, a genuine friendship would develop but you'd have no urge to fuck them because they're so damned ugly.

That, by definition, is a platonic relationship.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

Some may say YES it's possible and some may say NO it's not possible. I guess this is a matter of heart, when feeling creep in, you don't blame anyone. Be it man or woman, ugly or pretty make no difference.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

So why do you have to post this message???:rolleyes:

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

you`ll be surprised what a good makeover can transform any women.

yup i think i still can do them after u tidy them up

but then its only me, cos my dick is like a Golden Retriever, just whistle and it`ll run n fetch :p:p:p

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

thank u boss! got the logic
if there is some attraction, men don't want a platonic relationship.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

i wonder under what situation this kinda friendship can happen or like the boss said only if the woman is ugly

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

usually I am not surprise a personal friend wants a hug. this guy is someone I know in my work circle, so interactions are just work/business, to jump from work topic to i wana hug is quite shocking...

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

Actually, I have.

It is not that they are not attractive. But

1. We do not like to idea of having a FB, so if body contact means lover relationship (they are not selling).

2. We have different character and will not make a good life companion.

Hence, we can have 1-1 diner plus coffee session for hours, share the same bow of ice-cream and yet did not even hold hands.

In fact, I think it is my luck to have friends like that. Without the body contact, we have much higher respect to each others' privacy and opinions and our gatherings are normally very enjoyable. They filled part of the my loneliness.

Re: genuine platonic friendships with women?
 

From your posts, I get the impression that your POV is that non platonic relationships is to be avoided?

I believe that platonic is really zero. As long as there is an attraction, to progress is only natural. I believe that building deep relationships is a good thing, but that's just my POV and am not advocating this to others.

My point is, non platonic relationships NEED NOT be a bad thing. It's confusing, heartbreaking, but as long as everyone is mature about it, focusing on the big picture.. there is a lot of positive attributes. Take a step back and understand other cultures, the Sg School of Thought may not lead to a happy society.