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15-01-2025 02:12 PM |
Re: What do you call a man whose girlfriend is married?
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Originally Posted by DonQ
(Post 23918764)
Being with my gf for one year plus. Before we together, she told me that she is divorced. After that she tell me not yet and is separated only.
Their marriage already has trouble. Am I wrong to be with her ? Should I put my heart into this relationship or just treat it as an affair ..
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actually funnily enough im in a sort of opposite situation where im the guy that is still married. but my existing gf knew before we got together/close. but even until today i havent divorced yet and its not a topic that i want to bring up with her.
i think in your situation, you have to gauge based on how she treats you. do you feel like you're the only one? she really loves you? or like others are saying are you just a boytoy to satisfy her needs. then you decide yourself whether you should put heart into this relationship.
also ask yourself if you really see a future with this person.
over the period of time with my current gf, i feel that if i have a future with her (married,yadayada) i dont think it'll be a good life for me due to the kind of person she is. but since im stuck in my "situation" of being neither here nor there, i still choose to continue the rs as it satisfies my need for companionship and there are parts of me that really does love her.
its just the logical side of me that knows that this will not end in a good marriage if i ever take that step.
so just ask yourself these few questions, you should have clearer picture of what you should do.
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