40+ Single Men... Question For You
 

I'm thinking of being single again and become a player instead of committed, but I'm worried that I will get lonely when I grow old and cannot fuck anymore. How do you deal with this issue? Will it be lonely? Or the freedom is great?

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Ppl always think that when u get married you will step in the tomb, but I do not think this way.

What the point of fucking all the gals world wide? You don't received any medal "best bonking player"

Find a good gal and marry, give each other a freedom. Your parent are waiting for this day to arrive。 创忠接代。 Hopefully the 1st word is correct haha

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I agree with you..no medal no nothing. If she is the one for you, why let her go? People say bcos of one tree let go the whole forest...kinda crap. If she put in effort in all little details for you..the answer is there already.

I have a childhood friend, is a ultimate chiongster..everywhere anytime can find girls to bonk..but settled down get married last year and now planning for 2nd home and baby liao.

Don't live in regrets bro..all the best.

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Only one life, live for self or for parents?? Someone who likes food will want to try many food, someone who likes sex will want to fuck many girls...

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But if there is no parent will you been in this world? Since you already know what you want then what the point of this thread?

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there is too much girl to fuck if you just focus on the sex part , and there is no possible for us to chieong forever , we will need to eventually settle down .
I think it feel more better when you win the one you love than you spent $$$ fucking the hottest girl

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There is a difference between , " Fucking all the girls of the world" and getting married.

Fucking is all about lust...pleasure...new experiences... enjoyment.....

Getting married is about emotions, companionship , living together and experiencing life up and down as the life keep going without stopping, aging together etc....

When you get confused and think both they are one and the same , people often make disastrous decisions.

You got to ask yourself . What do you want and go for both or only the one you want.

Once you can differentiate them and have a clear mind, you can them make a good decision for different needs .

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Then let me tell you our story...

http://www.reddit.com/r/relationship...rting_her_29f/

Let me know if you insist that I should marry or give up, after you have read this.

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I'm not saying i'm not thankful to them, but just be honest it was never my decision to be brought into this world. I still love my parents but how I live my life is still my choice.

Problem is, I love her, but we're almost totally not sexually compatible. And I don't want to cheat. How?

I'm not confuse between the two paths. That's why I'm in a dilemma because I don't want to marry and regret it, nor do I want to break up and regret it.

I have high sex drive and she almost has none. I don't blame her, but how can I solve this issue without cheating??

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Bro, your gf can be a good wife in future, you should get marry, I understand that the issue is because of 1 party high sex drive and 1 party low sex drive, what I can think of is try to talk to her about it and hope she understand, un-slash out her potential.

You better marry a gal who is low drive then a high drive, if is high drive in future if you can feed her well she will go out find guy.

Base on the story, marry her and think about it, but worst to worst the last solution is to eat outside which I don't recommend.

Gd luck

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If I were you, I would break up with the girl...marriage is not about just finding a nice girl and settling down with her...it is about finding the woman whom you see yourself spending the rest of your life with her and vice versa.....never settle for anything less.....:D:D:D

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..is 传宗, not 传种or 创忠 ok

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I read a bit of your story... The gist is in your question above right?
If u see marriage as just sex, then don't marry bah.
Go find many piaks until u song song, maybe years later you will be ready for marriage... Provided you still can find a partner to marry then.

Fast forward many years...
My friend de friend de friend... Bachelor... Retired... Always go find piaks piaks last time... Parents no longer around... lives alone... Nowadays sexlife low liao... Always look for my friend/khakis for dinner or go casino.

:D

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I thought you have wifi Liao? :eek:

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I agree with what u said. She can be a good wife. This morning while she's preparing to go to work I just sat down and looked at her. She looks so beautiful to me I thought "I love her. I love this girl" then she saw me and said "oi...crazy ah? See what?" Hahaha she's so cute.

Thanks for sharing. For me I never agree that marriage is just about sex, just like life is not about money. But with enough sex it makes the marriage wonderful don't you think?

I think before marriage I will have a serious sit down discussion with her, on both our expectations toward each other. Of course we love each other but love is not just a saying but it is comprised of many things that make it work. Household management, respect, caring, honesty, communication, and many things. Sex is also one of it. Sex is physical and intimate, the only factor that differentiates a friendly love with a marriage love. Without good sex life how can one says that a marriage is successful??