Don't understand women
 

Quick question here, hope someone can tell me what I'm missing.

I had sex with my gf yesterday for the 2nd time. Halfway thru I got tired and we stopped and chatted for a while. After a while I got hard again and we continued. Pulling out after ejaculation we realised the condom had slipped out during the break, when my dick got soft. Obviously this means she might get pregnant. We washed up and she seemed ok to me. I went home afterwards.

This morning I texted and asked her if getting a morning after pill might be a good way to prevent possible pregnancy. She stopped replying and has been ignoring my calls and texts the whole day. She is clearly upset at me but I don't really know what I did wrong.

I really don't understand women...the silent treatment doesn't help either.

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I think she is upset by yr words to ask her take morning pill...like trying to be irresponsible....give it a day or two till she get her thoughts right then shuld b ok..

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You don't need to understand woman, all you need is to love her.

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Means you didn't sextisfy her enough lor.

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Silent treatment is a killer. Trust me.:o

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You already got your fuck , change your number and move on ....

:D

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agree with you ts! silent treatment may hurts but you know silent treatments is a killer

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If only it he refer to a whore lol
give her a few day to cool down i believe is your reaction to this that might upset her

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http://michelehowe.files.wordpress.c...ndingwomen.jpg

save yourself. dont bother at all.

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Answer is in how you replied her over the text message. It's like saying "sorry honey, I made a grave mistake of fucking you." After you have fucked her.

The morning after pill is not necessary for you to bring it up as she will be more kan cheong than you. You just need to be man enough when the time comes.

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TS, being a woman here maybe the best advice is to go look for her personally, hug her tight and say that you don't mean it that way.

Here's a couple of safe replies:
1) You are my gf, I care about you and your body.
2) It's not that I don't want to take responsibility if anything happens, I want to plan and settle with you step by step.
3) It's my fault, I hope we can talk through this and let me know how you feel

And most importantly, two 3 little words that work magic:
"I am sorry"
"I love you"

all the best bro

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No need and why bother to understand women.
Just know how to sianz girl and bonk them will do.:D

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Well have a baby is out of the question for us at this time. Also I don't exactly have the luxury of time to give her a few days to cool down, cos by then the pill will not work.

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so many female new accounts of late...maybe this is just what this forum require.

sis, please ask your other sisssssss to join in this forum.

kum sia. :D

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i can't agree more with spiderlily, she said it best.

girls tend to keep their feelings to themselves, so when u said she seemed ok - i think she's worried sick herself. in situations like this, you definitely need to give her a lot of emotional support.. going over to her physically to comfort her definitely is an act of assurance and care.

hope all goes well!