how to get wife excited with sex again
 

Looking for advice..
A brief background about my wife and I.. we are in our mid-30s and we've been married for a few years and already have kids. We enjoys sex and is quite open in bed, but we have not done anything too wild. Sometimes when we make love, we'd roleplay and imagine scenarios where she's fucked by ex, friends, colleagues or daily encounters, and those fantasies spiced up our sessions. The thought of other men having a go at her made both of us extra high when we fucked although at the end she would thinks it is weird.. we also bought a few sex toys to spice up..

so in the recent few weeks we went by without having sex due to catching covid, kids getting sick, busy getting ready for the kids and time flies by.. we did try to initiate a few times but it was feeling really weird and we just went on to sleep after that.. any advice how to get us started again or options that we can try or get wild?

Re: how to get wife excited with sex again
 

Ginseng tea + tabs chocolate (chocolates that makes you super horny)

Take those and try to resist each other when the effect comes in, this could lead to intense sex ;)

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Some outdoor fun haha
Make her wear something revealing and sit back while counting how many man looked :p

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Is your wife sitting in office whole day?

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Is this like a slow buildup to the main event thing ?

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what kind of chocolate?

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she does wear a little revealing, showing some cleavage and butt sometimes and I always can see a few guys staring at her while she's busying at her own stuffs

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both of us are.. not just her.. does that matter ?

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You have to reflect a bit bro, ultimately the man initiates but the woman creates the mood. Ask your wife what she's feeling, run some ideas by her and see her response. a fuck in a new place is one option.

beyond that it sounds like having another man fuck her might excite everyone. i wish i could offer my service but i now retired. or at least meeting another person or couple... and have sex in the same room.

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Ginseng tea helps?

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Yes!! 100% but please buy those real ginseng tea from herbal shops, not those cheap online ones

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Get toys and have fun in the bedroom.

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Does she feel excited when guys look at her?

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Just restart from the beginning again.