[BornHentai]

Originally Posted by calbts

Bro Bornhentai-

I understand your situation. I think in your case it was a combination of miscommunication and maybe a trepidation on your part since it was one of your first sessions in Japan. But maybe I am wrong.

I can't remember having any trepidation at all, since I was pretty experienced already. Miscommunication maybe but I'm not sure it was my fault. I had spelled things out very clearly in my email. I put it down to her having a very narrow view of SM (the exact opposite of what her profile) and just automatically giving up when presented with something outside that, providing absolutely lousy service (completely blatant clockwatching, ignoring my session requests, total unwillingness to bother with any kind of post session feedback)

Originally Posted by calbts

Then of course you find a Mistress that just clicks with you and you rmind and you crave for more. You can also tell that that particular Mistress is really "getting off" on the energy and is not faking it. Right now I got this with Mistress Ruiko. How long it will last I do not know but while it does - I will definitely take advantage.

I have not sessioned with Ruiko but my Japanese friends speak VERY highly of her. I've bumped into her at Eureka and am not sure whether there is chemistry there or not. If I ever did another session at La Siora then it would probably be with her. Should point out that she speaks zero English though.

Originally Posted by calbts

I think one thing I have going for me is that my type of sessions are very fun for Mistress. I am not into the heavy whipping/pain/bondage/enema etc. games so advanced SM skills are not really required for what I like. But a good, positive, and willing attitude is.

Wouldn't say that my style demands any advanced physical skills either. Everything I look for in a Domme is mental.

Originally Posted by calbts

Don't know if you are aware that La Siora does keep information in their files of client preferences and past sessions. Of course it is by number and not name so clients do remain anonymous. I always tell them to have new Mistresses review my data before session so that they know what I want. This helps a great deal for my initial sessions. I would assume other clubs also keep this data on their clients.

Any Japanese Mistress Club worth its salt does this. But I highly doubt that Akiho would have entered anything constructive in mine, or would have bothered to pay attention to it (if it hadn't been my first time at La Siora).