The Approach (Online Dating Platform)
To me, Mindset is above Money and Looks. I believe this is a crucial point to understand.
I would also add in - Perseverance and Gentlemanly.
When I was in AFF and Craiglist, it took me almost 3 months before I got a respond.
But my first respond turns out to be a bad date.
The girl is a plus size woman, totally different from the photo she email me and to add, she is not pretty nor cute.
Furthermore, she is just simply asking for a free meal and honestly, she can really eat.
So bros got to understand, there are some who are out there to con. Do be caution.
When writing emails to them, please state your bio data clearly.
Attached a photo will be a plus point, but please, don’t send your cock pic.
If they want to see your jewel, they will, when they are comfortable with you and willing to bed you.
If they are not interested, there is nothing you can do with your 12” cock!
Don’t say you are a Eurasian when you are simply an Indian-Chinese. Be clear and truthful. There is nothing to hide.
One thing I know for a fact, many of these online-ladies don’t wish to date Indians. Reason being, majority of them are Chinese and Malays.
It is very rare that I come across an Indian lady. In fact, I only manage to meet an Indian gal and 2 Eurasian ladies, the rest are Chinese ladies.
These ladies are here for a reason, sex being the main, but that doesn’t makes them a hooker.
They are just seeking fun out from their ordinary life, some might be discrete.
So your attitude towards them shouldn't be focus on “I want to fuck you” kind of approach.
The key point is to get them to respond and ask them out for a date. So it is important for them to know you.
Beside your bio data, add in your personality or character and why did you choose to message her.
What’s your idea of an interesting date and suggest some location that you might wish to bring her out to.
Few things that I learnt:
- Never do a one liner email. What kind of attention are you trying to get?!
- Every email to different lady is different. There might be some common info, but if you read her profile correctly, you should know what she is expecting and address those.
- Keep your email simple. Use simple words without grammar or spelling mistake. Don’t use too much abbreviation. Check, double check and triple check before sending out the email.
- Never lie in your email. You can withhold some details but don’t lie. For those married/attached guys, if you are seeking some side line fun, just mentioned, if ask, that your current relationship is complicated. If not ask, don’t talk about it.
- Don’t provide juicy info like how you used to date your girlfriends, how good you are in bed, how good you can make them orgasm. If she is agreeable to your date, she will find those out soon…
- When asking them out, always suggest location that is centrally located. Don’t find a remote area whereby travelling is so difficult. I suggest Marina Bay Link Mall (MBLM). There are few good outlets and restaurant. Parking is not difficult and Raffles MRT just nearby. Most importantly, the place is pretty quiet. After you can bring her to MBS to watch the fountain show.
- Don’t go to clubbing on first date, even if you know she is a party gal. Moreover, once in a club, your eyes and her eyes will wonder off. Also, you can’t even communicate properly with all those loud noise blasting through the amplifier.
- Before you actual date, you might wanna read up some data around the world and use them as a tool while communicating. (Do you know that a Cheetah can run up to 120km/H? That’s why Cheetah always gets a summon ticket in Singapore. Cos it’s above the speed limit! KeKeKeKe… its kind of lame…)
- During a date, don’t keep taking about yourself. You wanna know the lady, provide some leads from your perceptive and ask for her opinion. Play by the ear, different woman reacts differently to the same subject.
- Prepare yourself before the date. Dress appropriately. Don’t overdress.
- Important – EYES CONTACT. When you are communicating with her, look into her eyes and always put on a smile. Don’t size her up.
YMMV
to be continue