[CherryPickle]

Originally Posted by dk1972

The Approach (Online Dating Platform)


Few things that I learnt:

• Never do a one liner email. What kind of attention are you trying to get?!
• Every email to different lady is different. There might be some common info, but if you read her profile correctly, you should know what she is expecting and address those.
• Keep your email simple. Use simple words without grammar or spelling mistake. Don’t use too much abbreviation. Check, double check and triple check before sending out the email.
• Never lie in your email. You can withhold some details but don’t lie. For those married/attached guys, if you are seeking some side line fun, just mentioned, if ask, that your current relationship is complicated. If not ask, don’t talk about it.
• Don’t provide juicy info like how you used to date your girlfriends, how good you are in bed, how good you can make them orgasm. If she is agreeable to your date, she will find those out soon…
• When asking them out, always suggest location that is centrally located. Don’t find a remote area whereby travelling is so difficult. I suggest Marina Bay Link Mall (MBLM). There are few good outlets and restaurant. Parking is not difficult and Raffles MRT just nearby. Most importantly, the place is pretty quiet. After you can bring her to MBS to watch the fountain show.
• Don’t go to clubbing on first date, even if you know she is a party gal. Moreover, once in a club, your eyes and her eyes will wonder off. Also, you can’t even communicate properly with all those loud noise blasting through the amplifier.
• Before you actual date, you might wanna read up some data around the world and use them as a tool while communicating. (Do you know that a Cheetah can run up to 120km/H? That’s why Cheetah always gets a summon ticket in Singapore. Cos it’s above the speed limit! KeKeKeKe… its kind of lame…)
• During a date, don’t keep taking about yourself. You wanna know the lady, provide some leads from your perceptive and ask for her opinion. Play by the ear, different woman reacts differently to the same subject.
• Prepare yourself before the date. Dress appropriately. Don’t overdress.
• Important – EYES CONTACT. When you are communicating with her, look into her eyes and always put on a smile. Don’t size her up.

YMMV

to be continue

Very useful information. I agree that we should be honest as far as we can go. This is the way to win her trust.