[umistianz]

Hi bros,

Thanks for your advice and concern.

Just to update. I've visited DSC clinic for a thorough check-up yesterday.
HIV turn out -ve. Now pending lab test results for chlamydia, GC & syphilis.

From the symptoms, its likely to be chlamydia. Was given one dose of anti-biotics.

Now the worst part was to deal with revealing to wife and getting her to go for a check-up. I feel if I were to wait for the results to come back in 1-2 weeks time and it turn out positive, it'll be too selfish of me by then to reveal to her and get her to go for a screening. As I found out online that the bacteria might never show any symptoms in most cases for females but the bacteria might cause damage to her health in long term.

I've actually revealed to her this morning. As expected, she was in a daze and told me she'll consider about going for a screening. I'll definitely talk her into going for the screening.

So bros here, if you're in a similar situation, what would you do?