[damong777]

Originally Posted by momogaga

I have a very sad experience with a Vietnamese girl. She's the proper Vietnamese girl I met in Vietnam. She is a managerial level iron lady working for a Japanese company. I love her confidence, independence and passion.

One thing I learnt is that she is very jealous, highly insecure and not trusting. She has a very quick temper and is quick to judge. There's a lot of differences in culture just bear in mind bros. I put my hands on her girl friends shoulders when we posed for photos (was in a bar and everyone was happy as well), she saw it and she totally went over the top with it. She was jealous and said I liked her friend just by being so close. I had a tough time explaining and even then she didn't really understand how I could do that. In her mind, one could never really get so close to a lady friend on a first meeting.

But alas, it had to end because of some circumstances which we both knew were not favourable right from the onset. But I deeply loved her. She is passionate and makes me happy all the time, despite the persistence fuses and bombs and conflicts we would get into, just because there's a difference in intepreting our languages and culture. For example, we refer to each other as "ox" and "bx". If one day, I forgot and spoke to her in mandarin using "Ni" referring to "you", she would question you in a suspicious manner. You can never jokingly tell or discuss with her someone on the street that you just saw who was beautiful. She will get really angry. But ultimately, it's ended. She has decided not to take my calls or receive my messages. But, all these is because of a circumstance. If I am able to one day again, I will look for her. But is she right for me? She can also seem a bit flirty to me, she smiles at guys who tries to approach her. When I ask her she said it's being polite in her culture. Which makes them so beautiful. In Singapore, you see all black face and rude people.

I wish fate will lead us back together again.

is part of their culture...they want men to be honest and faithful to them; but in end a lot of their men got affair and get divorced...