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Originally Posted by a2014
If not wrong both of you are very young and he is quite high in sex. Since not convenience at home so he may thought of trying to buy some sex but got stuck in it.
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Well we are young. He's 29 and I am 27 this year.
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Originally Posted by a2014
How do you say he got caught, you mean you caught him going ? Anyway that may be a standard answer, if you ask me I may also say like that. If both of you did talk on this did you ask him how he feel. I guess you wouldn't have such mood other than scolding right. At time when man do such things you need to figure out why, hopping all over him don't solve your problem only escalate it.
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I caught him when I saw his text messages. It was a message to the pimp. I asked him how ge felt and he had said that he couldn't stop thinking about it cause of all the rave reviews and how hot she had looked and he was curious to what a killer bbbj or whatever she was offering was like. Sometimes I still can't believe he actually did that. Because we were in a good place and I had thought he would have cherished what we had.
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Originally Posted by a2014
You should know if he did visit such place or not unless you are saying he is frequently coming back late or no interest to have sex or not performing well during sex for some unknown reason. Man take a while to recharge one look you should know.
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He says he didnt have intentions to frequent such FLs cause he said they weren't as good as what was advertised and that because he was getting the same thing at home and even better because of our emotional connection which he wouldn't be able to get from them. And he also said they weren't even as hot as advertised and that to him, our sex was and is always better. But maybe he's just saying that cause anything else is inappropriate and would make me more unhappy.
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Originally Posted by a2014
It is your inner self that count. The question is do you love him. Do you know him well. If you do and belief he is a good guy, one day he will feel sick of such life. He will know, the one at home serve him only, the one outside serve many. If he is good at heart he will come to sense. The only thing left is when.
Take Care and think wisely.
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At the end of the day, I do still love him and want things to work out. I don't want our kid to be raised in a broken family. But I just don't know how much I can trust him anymore because I can't stop thinking about the betrayal. Everyday I look at him and I find myself sighing. I know it takes time to build back the trust.. But right now, I am very disappointed and moody.