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Originally Posted by Giggs
Not all FL/ML are into $$$. True their objective to come to SG is to earn $$$, but most have integrity (at least those i've known) not to 'cheat' guys feeling and rip him off. They themselves know it might disrupt their work if they get involved with guys.
I've made some ML friends whom we go out and they offer to treat. I did not even patronize some of their massage even. We just go out weekly like pals, exploring places to eat. I drive, they treat.
If guys want to give expensive gifts willingly, why will the gals reject?
imho most of the time guys themselves get KC-ed and just give them gifts willingly, the girl most probably did not ask for it.
my 2 cents.
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These days, this thread is getting very "exciting" and "very hard" not to join in the fun discussion.
Not all ML/FL are into $$$ ???
=> Sure or not? They are not into $$$ why do they take risk to come to SG?
I am pretty sure they are not here to celebrate SG50.
True their objective to come to SG is to earn $$$, but most have integrity (at least those i've known) not to 'cheat' guys feeling and rip him off.
=> I have to agree not all are out to cheat. Since we are all humans, mutual respect is an important element while having fun. I would say most of the time if there is a "willing" party who want to give tips, gifts, love.... no one can stop right?
==> I have got a few encounters where the ML will tell SAD stories or try to hint if I can buy this or buy that for her. If any brothers who have spare cash to spend on these MLs, as long as they are happy, no one can stop them or say they are wrong.
They themselves know it might disrupt their work if they get involved with guys.
==> Most of the MLs that I know go out and get paid for their time when they are out they shopping, eating , walking with the "paying" brother. I don't see how it would disrupt their work. Unless that bro did not pay after that... then that will really disrupt their work.
I've made some ML friends whom we go out and they offer to treat. I did not even patronize some of their massage even. We just go out weekly like pals, exploring places to eat. I drive, they treat.
==> I must say bro you are very lucky. Did not patronise their massage and they even offer to treat you. You must be making a lot of "paying" brothers here very "angry" or "evny".
My personal view for such matters, there are no right or wrong.
If one is willing and capable of spending, no one can stop you or say that you are wrong.
If one is willing and NOT capable of spending, then better STOP before its too late. I have friends who borrow $$ to spend on MLs, and when advised to think properly gets angry and wants to end friendship. Problem when small heads takes over control...... SAD.