haven't read this thread in a couple weeks, but just want to share a little tidbit on the topic these past few days:
on my last visit to xiaojie, she showed me a message from a bro which went smth like: "msg me after your last customer" and she turned to me and said: "he handsome so he think i like him" and rolled her eyes LOL. so it's not only the smelly toads, the handsome toads also want to eat swan meat.
remember bros, at the end of the day it's still a business transaction. best to be able to compartmentalise. unless you really KC her then please share the story!