Yes. After all we are all human, MLs too. But many bros do treat them as garbage. Personally, I do not think everyone is born wanting to be a ML. They are here for money? Yes of course. But aren't we all working for money too? In all human to human relations, it is always transactional, even in family members too, but there is nothing wrong in giving a little kindness, you get reciprocated, good, if not, move on. Still good karma.
Agree. I have always gotten better treatment from simply treating them as humans. Once in a while buy them food, or bring them something they requested, like a pail, or a cup, nothing expensive or fancy. It is these small little things in times of need that they appreciate your sincerity. And I think when they treat you more of a friend then pure customer, the session is definitely more enjoyable.
We speak so badly about the chinese men treating them like dirt, but actually I think we have a large pool here that actually wants to mimic the chinese dirt
All I hear here is I need to get my money's worth and the MLs must give it to me. Yes, we all want our money's worth, but what did you invest to get back the returns? You give peanuts, you get peanuts. But human relations is relative, give expensive bag may not get you anything. I remember the Big Boobs Summer once showed me an expensive bag a customer gave her which she was trying to reject, but the guy just left it there. She didn't know what to do with it. But all I did was buy some food and get very good vibes from her.
Yes. But i do tip for super good service. It is personal. I also tip the waiters or chambermaid if they provide really good service as well. Dependent on whether you are coming back, that is the key. Same for ML. If I am sure no chemistry even if the service is superb, I usually will not tip. Like the waiter, they usually remember and sometimes I jump long queue to get into the restaurant, all because I treat them well. So likewise, treat them peanuts, they will give you what is available in the menu, nothing more nothing less. Treat them well, they let me jump queue, offer discounts, and so on. Nothing to lose.