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Originally Posted by Special Spawner
spend almost the whole session nagging and talking to her. To my surprise, the only aeroplane she did was the first few days when she had to suddenly moved to another apartment and the 1 stomachache gastric incident.
She asked if she is really not feeling well, should she still carry on and provide a half ass service session or tell customer sorry and book another day.
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I am interested to add a comment on this thread of discussion, since this is TCSS. Not specific to this ML, but a more general sharing of my experience with the MLs from China.
Things that they tell me are not true in alot of cases; even if I am her regular. It is very naive for me, if I choose to believe things that the ML tells me. They are very skillful in telling half-truths, or complete fabrications. And to them, it is nothing wrong, and they don't consider this lying. They are very experienced and skillful in chatting with men, thru their years of working in this line of work; to tell me what I want to hear in very convincing ways.
So, when they tell me explanations of why they did somethings; problems that they face, etc : I remind myself it is her side of the story. I have no idea how true her story is. Similarly, when they tell me of their background in China, what they do; I remind myself these can be exagerrations, or even completely false.
In the past, I have believed in alot of things that my regular ML's told me. I have changed to not taking them seriously.
In listening to problems that my ML shared with me, I remind myself that things are not that bad for her. She has many many resourceful ways to solve her problems, and it is her communication technique to get me sympahize with her.
Again, just TCSS ...