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Originally Posted by sandymich
It's not important enough to me to risk the sex life I have, and the happiness of my partner, just to get a little extra thrill.
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maybe you don't have to tell him what you want exactly. just subtly move or nudge him along towards what you want slowly and i really mean slowly. it might take many many sessions before he gets the drift or the idea may hit him and you get what you want.
i hope that works so that you can get your happiness and let him think he instigated/thought of it instead of you nudging him towards it.
