[Jasee]

Wow, you managed to get your supervisor! Sounds like something I’d be afraid to do especially when they decide your performance appraisal

But yes I agree too, I think come across as candid, direct and abit cheeky for the teasing part. But also let her get to know your reason and if she feels the same way and reciprocated, then it’s a win win for you both anyway.

Perhaps you are also really charming and attractive and that can also be “scary”, because what if she devotes herself to you, and someone takes you away from her. Then all the effort she has put into being w you is lost and she’s going to go back to finding a guy who she thinks won’t scare her.

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

If I were you I'd be direct and tell her "Don't worry, I promise I won't bite if you don't want me to. *winks* How about we go for drinks after work? I know of so and so bar, pretty chill atmosphere, good drink prices. Purely drinks, no obligations or expectations."

Disarm her with being candid, direct, but just a bit cheeky to tease her and show you are returning her flirtations. That's kind of how I upped my supervisor at work last time in my first job.