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Originally Posted by kryptonite1892
I've a story to share and would love to hear your thoughts on this.
I know this colleague who has had fun with another colleague of mine. Both are married but that fun time was years ago. I guess it's the excitement. She's quite pretty and recently i got close to her due to work projects.
I hinted to her to go out on a date with me but she laughed it off and tried to ignore the topic but we are still very close and share jokes here and there and sometimes it's the flirty type. Asked her to go out on a date with me because now she's not married anymore.
Her response was she finds me 'scary' and 'dangerous' and when i asked more of what she meant by that, she said dangerous in a way that i was charming and attractive so it was dangerous. Not sure what she meant by that but i guess she doesn't want to fall in love or anything like that?
Tbh, I'm not looking for love too. Just companionship and maybe have a good time destressing and chilling with her. How do i try to convince her to try and go out with me and have a good time?
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i see you have asked a few times ya ? since you have work projects together, use lunch first?
and for after work chilling, maybe use events like concert, expo you want go see something ask her accompany u as friend, like this less direct less like a date defense down then progress to date after a few such outings
this just my suggestion