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Originally Posted by ladyassasinato

铁飞机 Good mah, if your prick maintain hard as a rock for 1.5 hr, it is a blessing. Many guys will envy you, you can be a gigolo.

When you get blacklist because of it, its not longer good bro..

Originally Posted by yqz7

I’m not a urologist so I cannot advise too much. But from what you say it’s probably more of a mental block than a ED issue. It could be stress or you just get tense up cos your mind is telling you it won’t work.
And to be honest you are right it really doesn’t matter if you don’t cum. Good if you do no biggy if you don’t. Get yourself relaxed.
Try going to a different girl, sometimes maybe a fresh experience with a high sensual girl will help.
And maybe even try stop going to any girls for a few weeks then go again. Let your mind rest and let your mind crave for it. Maybe you are just getting numb and bored of this hobby. It has even happened to me before that my regular ML finds it hard to get me off and she complained about it. Eventually I rotate around before going back to her the session got better after some absence and now the time is of normal duration.

Yes bro, it has come to a point where I don't feel disappointment if i don't shoot anymore, so i always treat it as a bonus if it happens.

Originally Posted by SithLord74

Sorry to hear of your problem, bro. I’m the exact opposite. I climax too fast…I want to enjoy the sensations of a BBBJ/HJ/FJ longer, but I will shoot way too fast. Once, an ML was done massaging me and started to play with my lil bro before asking me if I wanted the special. As soon as the question came out of her mouth, my semen came out of…well, you know. I didn’t even get the chance to reply. She was shocked and maybe a bit disappointed because she didn’t even get to present the menu to me. I was even more disappointed, hugely embarrassed and cursing myself.

I wish we can have an even balance of both.

You should try doing kegel exercises, it might help.

Originally Posted by Johndick

Yo bro, your problems could be a combination of psychological and physical but I am more concern about you will face problem booking ML if you stick to this formula of letting the girl jerk you off 1,2 or 3 hrs. Not all ML will voice out to you face to face that it's a chore but bound to have some whom will indicate in database your issues to flag out to others. There wil also be MLs whom will charge you more else won't let you book due to your issues. And let's be completely honest, only a handful of MLs will be "professional" enough to look beyond your issue and determine to make your $$ worth by ensuring you cum. Some will outright black face and black list you. My suggestion is approach each session with the mindset that you don't expect to cum, just enjoy the process of roaming ML nude body, the GFE, the interaction, then sensual but if 10mins of hj or bj still no feel of cumming then just tell her is ok, don't need continue. That way, less likely you will get records that will make you circle of MLs choices smaller and smaller. But if you feel is waste of your $$ if you don't attain the goal of shooting, then good luck to you with ML booking going forward and hope your condition will improve soon. Just remember though, what is written in the database, stays in it. All the best.

This actually sounds like a very good plan, what you have just said is so true everything on point! thank you for you kind wisdom.

Originally Posted by steelaeroplane

bro, similar condition here as my nickname suggested, but I don't take 1.5 hours to cum. Usually I will take between 20 to 30 mins to hit climax.

For me, my HJ has to be at regular rhythm rather than fast & furious. Fast & furious will just not work for me. Some of my regular MLs found that rhythm, while some just never get it so I have to takeover after 20 mins or so.

The other thing I noticed is that if my hands are too busy roaming around, it will delay my climax even though the action gives sexual excitement. So after 15 mins, I will just let the ML do her job while my hands remain rested.

just sharing my experience... might not work for everyone as nobody is the exactly the same.

I also had this thought when it started happening to me, i mean i have to try to find all the possible causes. Keeping myself too busy with fondling grabbing and etc, after an hour of doing all those sensual stuff on the girl it will eventually become bored, like i had enough of it already, well if the session continues, she will still pull my hands to her boobs, etc just to get my excitement going. If i really do shoot after the long sensual it is so very intense!

Originally Posted by Assassin

I used to be steel aeroplane about 20 yrs ago . Sometimes bonk my gf too long until dick numbed and have to pretend to cum. I think I pcc and watched Jap AV too much and luckily I figured out that the cowgal position which has similar feeling as pcc cos I dun need to move much made me cum faster. To my surprise, a few slutty or pretty girls actually made me cummed in missionary position in less than 10 mins as I felt very excited and stimulated during the session.

Most of the women I have sex with prefers to have a less than 20 mins session and they normally wanted me to cum fast after they cummed. Only 1 lady said her ex bfs all can bonk her for an hour except me. I replied that becos u failed to stimulate me and I got turned off by ur anti climax words and 1 position sex (only in missionary position).

Thank you all bros for your concerns and thoughts! I have read all of them and have come to a conclusion, will be giving myself some rest time, take a break from the scene for maybe few weeks to a month. Anyways, my regular for the past few month kind of blacklisted me, she feels she is not able to satisfy me and has given too much to me. I assured her before, that i'm ok not to shoot and am not angey or sad over it. Maybe she just 过不了自己那一关, was really sad over it, sometimes its really hard to find someone who you can click so well with. Have not gone for any session this week and it coming to an end soon, feels a bit uneasy like something is missing, hope i can hold it out for a while.