[Fello128]

Fairly new to the scene as well.
Very much agree with the approach to shop around and try. As they say one man's treasure is another man's poison and MLs/Spas do come in many shapes and sizes. As you try more places, you'll eventually figure out what aspects you prioritize, not only for the experience of the session but also physical aspects of the spa itself, e.g. cleanliness, location, discreetness. With a number of visits under your belt, it can help to streamline how you select your future MLs/Spas.
Inevitably you will hit some landmines but you'll also get hidden gems along the way that can be added to your regular rotation. Take the reviews here with a pinch of salt but if you're really curious, theres no other way to find out other than to go down yourself and try it out. Just prepare yourself that it may not be as described...
Treat the MLs with respect but always keep it very transactional to avoid being trapped by their stories. Keep yourself fairly well groomed and you'll realise that the MLs appreciate that too. After all they also have their own preferences and how much you can unlock depends on your individual vibe with each ML.
Stay safe and have fun!