[Kopiosteve]

Seems like no real "unlocking" at all here.

If you need to incentivize the girl, be it with money or expensive gifts, it's still giving the girl financial benefits in return for sex. That's transactional. Nothing wrong with that. But just call a spade a spade. Don't delude yourself thinking otherwise, and pretend it's something else.

Then move on, because if you don't, she will.

It's when the girl doesn't need financial benefits because she genuinely likes you or is turned on by you. Now that's different. Whether you leave something for her later, it's up to you. But it will not affect anything. And this is a whole different game altogether.

But of course, the hair splitting will continue...