Originally Posted by Cunite
i like how you described - that comes every 2-3 strokes, constant non stop teasing. Consistent teasing is important for a good HDLY. also total duration is important. yet at the same time i feel like the stimulation cannot be too constant (otherwise i cannot last la). HDLY connoisseur will know.
I've tried all the famous one. Adele, Star. while i agree they are top grade HDLY practitioners, but i can just never last long enough because they dont 'edge' enough. the stimulation is non-stop without breaks. also they just grab ur dick and jack it basically, so while it feels good, it's almost 'too good' if you know what i mean. you really just cannot prolong the experience if you are really sensitive like me.
hope to be able to find more like-minded bros so that we can exchange. after many years of trying many massage joints, i have developed a taste for specific style, preferring to release while lying down (and not on all fours). so that your dick is 'pulled down' position, rather than in normal erect position which happens when you are on all fours, which is why i dont fancy it cuz it just feels the same as normal. those who like their dick massaged in the pulled down pos will know. it feels totally different because of the way they have to grab your dick and your balls together. and usually the frenulum gets tons of love.
you will start to know where are the joints that have girls who are trained to give your ass crack and shaft a good oil massage from behind (somehow they are mostly in 88 joints). yet i've never met 2 girls with the same style, even in the same joint. problem is they have their SOP - non-oil massage first, oil massage on the back, then leg, they will probably throw some teasing in between, then maybe some focus on the butt for 5-10 min, then turn around, GQ. this doesnt work for me. cant stay hard, and not enough stimulation.
i always tell my regulars at these joints, after they finish the 5-10 min towel massage at the beginning, just start doing oil massage at bum area. they know what it means, and usually that means 30 mins of intense focus (i usually cant last more than that) on my balls and shaft (note: they can't just rub the balls. they also need to know how to stimulate the shaft and frenulum). these girls already have the techniques, but they just dont apply it consistently enough, or long enough, so must guide them.
my criteria for solid HDLY (lying down kind):
-oily (some places the girls not trained they dont use enough and it really not as shiok)
-technique - they need to know how to use their whole hand AND fingers together to tease and stroke the shaft and head gently (and not just grab and pump. skilled practitioners will know). best ones i had know how to use their palm, fingers, thumbs, all applying different strokes and pressure. adele has good technique.
-variety - they need to have a few different 'moves' in their repertoire too otherwise too boring. adele doesnt have good variety. she has basically only one move if i recall. star has quite a lot of variety, but other areas (tempo, pressure) not to my taste as very aggressive style.
-tempo - slowly and gently so i can really feel the electricity with each touch, and do for a few reps, before pausing and resting for a bit. then resume. then rotate the repertoire. keep doing until bth liao and just release. the basic principle im looking for is whether the tempo matches mine, and achieves the edging im after. YMMV
-pressure - as mentioned, cannot be too 'hard' kind. light to medium is best, enough to be stimulated, not enough to cum too fast. because im sensitive, even the light brushing can feel really electrifying, but ML must know how to apply la, cannot be just use the nails to tickle kind.
-girl - cannot be old/fat/ugly la sorry. last time whenever such threads come out, is always the old aunties that have the technique. but i need young and pretty girls otherwise it doesnt work.
usually this style just feels so shiok that i always skip the turn around and ask them continue. if it feels good, why goto regular HJ? thats why i dont understand. most of these girls normal HJ sucks in comparison. it's almost like they are taught, HJ means just jack up and down to until ejaculation. but luckily they still learn some art of teasing.
This style probably only for bros who are like me - sensitive (cant last long kind) and like edging and teasing. if anyone has contact to share w me, pl PM me.
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