[aczeta76]

eerhhh... dun know what to say.. Chatting is fine, I can chat with everyone from the chio nurse at the clinic this morning to the MM at my favorite Bee Hoon stall.. No harm in chatting so long as both parties enjoy it. We are social animals mah

On comm sex. If you see most of the bros here, we are all normal, some married, some attached, some single but we all share one thing common, we visit Xiao Jie..

There is nothing wrong or abnormal about this so being a desirable bachelor has nothing to do with finding FL

Why? Ultimately, dpds on how you see things lah?

Before i met my PRC GF, I also have my share of SG GF and we do engage in ECA so I oso dun know Y i still go GL, TN to 6c6c

Even now, when my PRC GF not with me, I oso go cheong mah. Rite or wrong.. I dun know

All I know is that (I have told some of the FLs this) there are some FL/WL who I visit juz for the sex and fun and to release urge and feel good...Xiao Mei, Yan Zi, CDSL etc

There are other who I see to make love, Xiao Ping, Xiao Na, Wu Li, Shan Shan etc (and we remain friends) after tat.

Still others who I see for fun and old times sake, like Xiao Lu, Le Le...

I guess in the whole scheme above, so far, only those in the 2nd category esp XN make me feel that I should get out of comm sex..Correction, she is the only one who i feel doesn't really fall into the category of FL

Which is Y I dun post FR on her.

My advice to you bro... ask yourself what you want in life. And do it, knowing all the risk involved

Cheonging has nothing to do with looks or money or watever, it is a state of mind. U can be a millionaire and yet prefer Cat 40 or u could be a good looker but prefer MILF.. it is your preference.

Ask yourself and you will get your answer