Long Story :
We've had a sexual relationship for a few months now and I'm always the one initiating it. When we make love, I would always make a lot of effort in giving her pleasure (fondles, kisses and licks) before I enter her.
Foreplay and Oral sex (receiving) she does seem to enjoy; she does get moist down there and there are some (not many) occasions when her legs would shiver at the end of an oral receiving. But, when I ask her about her orgasms, she's very vague about it, she's not very sure if she reach her climax either.
During vaginal sex however, I'm not sure if she enjoys it or not. She doesn't moan but perhaps because she is shy. Her expressions look like she's in slight pain but when i ask her she asks she's okay. To her sex is like jogging, just makes her tired.
I think I can last quite long, but have to admit the hardness not always there. Last night, I managed to get her to talk about her experience on our love making. She says fingering, cunnilingus, vaginal sex all have a different feeling to it. And that fingering on her G-spot feels more 'spot on' for her. (means can always simulate the right spot per stroke) Whereas, when we have sex, its a hit and miss experience (not every stroke hits the mark).
Of course she says as long as I am happy, she's happy.. but I would like her to have a better sexual experience too. Is it even possible to achieve 100% marksman? Can any brother /sister offer some sound suggestions or opinions?
(to be honest, we both have no cross references/past partners. I'm her 1st and my past experiences with other girls never involve fj)
Looking at girls moaning in self taken sex videos (don't consider FL, coz maybe fakes).. I wish someday my gf's audio can on too ;p
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Another issue in mind involves the Rubber Jacket.
Just a few days ago, I asked if I could enter without rubber for a while before I put it on to finish and she nodded. I pounded for about 5min raw then capped to continue the deed.
We did the same last night too, but after our little after sex chat, she seem to prefer without cd. She says the friction between the rubber and her skin is uncomfortable. Previously we have tried with lubricant too and she doesn't like it too. Hence, she given me the green light to enter her raw as long as I don't shoot inside.
I still have my worries. Is it safe in terms of not impregnating her? I know as long as I do not reach my climax and release my wriggly sperms when I'm inside her its okay. But sometimes you pump too furiously then realise don't what to shoot yet and you pause inside her for a rest and if she squeeze any further, some of your sperm would offload while you are trying to hold back.
Any brother can share your experiences? Would it be better to just be safe and just spend like the last 1-2 mins offloading (hj/bj) outside of her?
thanks for reading my very long questions
