Bro Safari, if after you come you still have strong feelings for the PRC girl, you got problems. But I would suggest that you stick with the wife ... it's clear you still got one for her. So do like 100% of cheongsters on this website and ???% of us in SG/ Asia/ World. Find a place to park the monster when u need to ... but don't cash in the home front unless there is no other choice or you get caught