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Old 01-03-2011, 01:30 AM
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Re: Fetish/Role Play/BDSM in HC

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Originally Posted by calbts View Post
Yes that is too bad you cannot travel more. The attitude you deal with in Singapore and that I suspect is also prevalent in the USA - is the exact opposite attitude of Japan where Mistresses are extremely accomodating to clients desires,wishes, wardrobe, etc. and while out of session - do not emit a dominant,unfriendly, bitch attitude.
Even though I have yet to play at Club Absolute in Nagoya - I am very impressed with their website page explaining everything about their club.
It is informative and welcoming:
http://www.club-absolute.com/Html/systemEN.htm
You should email this example to your local doms so maybe they could learn something about service.

You know it should be a requirement for every wanna be dominatrix to go to Japan and see what a real Mistress is and learn how to act and treat clients. Respect goes both ways.
Bro calbts, thanks for the great link! It covers everything BDSM lovers like ourselves need, be it the location, costumes, attitude and most importantly, being able to cum at the end of the session. I must make it a point to go Japan one of these days to try for myself.

Your suggestion for all new dominatrix to see how a professional dominatrix treat her client, both before and during the session, is a valid one that I fully support. Unfortunately, I cannot see this happening anytime soon - I wonder if there is any professional dominatrix in Singapore that would train new dominatrix to a minimum standard. Otherwise, it is really a shame to use the term "dominatrix" when one is anything but that.