[orneryjoe]

Interesting post.

It's true that commercial sex and making love with one's significant other is not the same. But I think you do realise as well, that neither is perfect. In fact, nothing in life is perfect. So instead of longing what one cannot have, I am resolved to enjoy what I can have.

Thus like you, I am almost totally into commercial sex now. Unlike you however, I savor every encounter. Every one is different, unique and satisfying in its own way. Of course with a few, it totally sucks, but thankfully, with some experience, one learns to avoid the lemons.

If I were to live my life over again, I would never commit long term. Even with the most delectable of babes, after some time, that longing for variety will re-assert itself. Humans are a non-monogamous species. Wish I had discovered this fact earlier on in life.

The truth of our non-monogamous nature ought to be taught to all young people as this will have a profound impact on their long term happiness.