Anybody met any local mistress in the flesh who
you know "likes to eat what she cooks" . e.g If she likes to anal poke you, she likes to be anal poked. if she likes to doggy walk you, she also likes to be doggy walked. of cos cannot compare with any Japanese BDSM idols,where almost all are like dat.
You know the kind who is sincere and not hypocritical and ironically live by the chinese adage " 己所不欲，勿施于人“.
Or simply "if you dont like something done on you, dont do it to others. vice versa."
i like this formula. i am firm believer.
i only ever met 3 or 4. But they're all gone now...Hope to meet more.
