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Originally Posted by tchad88
No lah bro, you hook all these girls, so I am trying to put it into perspective. If u were young tall n handsome it wd be easier. But mid 40s, wau I take my hat off to you!
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thanks bro, but if you look around, most of the reasonable looking women are often with not-handsome and or not young men...when I was younger, I used to be jealous and resentful of that and always believed that those women are after the men's money only...
But now...I understand...it's not the money they are after...it's the experience with women....the patience...the willingness to be considerate...basically, the gentle and slow hand...(because the young and handsome most of the time are impatient and self-focused....I know because I was one of them before...
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(Heh heh heh bro....this reminds me of an old joke.....why do women prefer old gynaecologists?? Because their hands shake a lot more than the young ones...hahahahaha)
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For me, your notes are too long, no way I can remember 10phases (so far) while same time romancing up a syt. But one thing I picked up from you is, and thanks, no need to go for the super super pretty ones as u are not marrying them.
I have been doing that all my life and sometimes a lot of time wasted for no rewards. I will change strategy henceforth and go for the 6s or 7s
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Excellent bro...it's great that you are reading...some of it will be retained...more if you practise...
2 quick pointers to note bro...
1) don't try to remember the phases...that will make you unnatural when you apply them...they are broken down into steps just so that the bros here can see the logic in each of the phases....
If you think through all the different parts, they are basically what any guy would do to woo a girl...but because we are speeding the whole process up so much...we need guidelines to not jump the gun too quickly and risk turning a woman off...just read through all the steps and learn the limits of each phase...visualise yourself doing the actions...and you will see the logic in them...
No need to be perfect bro...we will all screw up a bit here and there, but that only makes us better the next time we try it...
2) Yes, true that bro...guys waste too much time going for the best looking ones...the reward is not always worth the effort...worse if she's a dead fish...
However...when looking for a wife or girlfriend...some of these 6s and 7s are also the better material....they are not tao and vain like some of the pretty ones and will focus their attentions on the man...more willing to compromise and spend a hell of a lot LESS time on making us wait while they to do their make up...
And when you have mastered the method to woo women (whether take long time or short time) you may become like me...fuck the pretty ones because we can...but keep the 6s and 7s (occasionally 8s - my Shanghainese graduate student gf is an 8 - 8.5...she should be a face model...but her speach and voice quality not that good...has a lisp and low self esteem...but her lisp is endearing to me now...) because we like to be with them more...
Heh heh heh me too bro, made that mistake all my life too...thank goodness I woke up while I still can chase skirts....but let's not dwell on it...otherwise, one of the bros will write in and say we only take the left overs from handsome men....and then curse my daughter to suck thousands of handsome men's cocks...
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