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Originally Posted by mclovin_boy
I had a friendzone encounter before. I was nerdy n totally uncool in secondary school too which is like 10 over freaking years ago. Had this huge crush on this school belle. Damn lucky to be able to sit beside her for 1 year. We got along damn well so after the O Levels, I confessed to her at our class chalet. She rejected me n wants to remain in the friendzone, saying I'm so cute. Now she's still so pretty but she realized I've made it n she says I'm handsome now.
The word cute is very vague. It can really mean cute-looking or it can mean 'cute-looking'. Eg, a cute looking male model vs a chubby looking cute boy. Don't you use the word cute to describe both situation? It may not mean anything too.
I feel if you want to get a gf, you gotta be financially stable first. The sad reality is that most gals look for a guy that can provide for them. I heard of gals that don't mind being with financially unstable dudes but how many cases of such things happen really? All my previous GFs and now a wife is super high maintenance. I can say my wife spends about $8K worth of shopping alone per month.
For the friendzone part, I am not sure cos I would just give up n stay as friends if the gal wishes. Maybe you can be persistent in wooing her n one day she will change her mind about you. Some gals like to test on how fast the guy gives up on the relationship so they sometimes tend to play hard to get. There's no tips really. Just be confident, responsible, financial stable, have the correct etiquette n manners (esp being punctual), be a listener & be yourself (don't try to be someone you isn't). You don't need to be handsome or cute in order to have a gf.  |
Oh i get what you are trying to say. Thanks for sharing your short life story with belle. Hmmmm...I tried to woo my crush for 7 months but gave up in the end,7 months is quite a long time for chasing a girl. Ok got it. Thanks man
