FB or GF? how you guys decide and make it happens?

[justinares]

I never get into any relationship before 1st relationship(ofcuz lah ) because i am very shy and bore guy(i never think i am handsome or good looking also).

For the 1st relationship, she added me in facebook. And i accepted her due to alot mutual fren(i wont accept if it is stranger,except good looking girls la) but i dun really rmb who are her exactly.

1st encounter,
One day, she pm me: hi!
me: hi!
she: who are you?
me: how i know?
she: why we were fren in facebook?
me: i guess u add me, right?
she: nope. (wont she forgot she add me at first? )
me: then i guess i add u.(i replied like this bcuz her picture and photo on facebook looks good so i guess not surprise or strange to add a hot girl, right?)
she: okay...
me: Thanks for accept and nice to meet you!
she: same here.
me: i got thing to do, see you!(seriously my game started that time, it's dotA )

[mclovin_boy]

Originally Posted by justinares

I never get into any relationship before 1st relationship(ofcuz lah ) because i am very shy and bore guy(i never think i am handsome or good looking also).

For the 1st relationship, she added me in facebook. And i accepted her due to alot mutual fren(i wont accept if it is stranger,except good looking girls la) but i dun really rmb who are her exactly.

1st encounter,
One day, she pm me: hi!
me: hi!
she: who are you?
me: how i know?
she: why we were fren in facebook?
me: i guess u add me, right?
she: nope. (wont she forgot she add me at first? )
me: then i guess i add u.(i replied like this bcuz her picture and photo on facebook looks good so i guess not surprise or strange to add a hot girl, right?)
she: okay...
me: Thanks for accept and nice to meet you!
she: same here.
me: i got thing to do, see you!(seriously my game started that time, it's dotA )

I think you're not shy or boring, I think you prioritize gaming above finding a girl just by seeing your conversation with her above. I really hope you're not some hardcore gamer if you really wanna commit in a relationship. I've known lots of gals previously that complains about their bfs spending more time on Dota than them & eventually the relationship crash & burn. I don't think that's cool.

The next thing you should do in the conversation is to capture her attention, let her be interested in you, talk to her about things you & her like to do in common then ask her out. This is if you want her to be your gf.

For FB, I can't help you as all my current 4 FBs are known through clubbing or mutual friends in clubs. I never met a FB through Facebook or other social platforms before.

[Forza458]

Originally Posted by mclovin_boy

I think you're not shy or boring, I think you prioritize gaming above finding a girl just by seeing your conversation with her above. I really hope you're not some hardcore gamer if you really wanna commit in a relationship. I've known lots of gals previously that complains about their bfs spending more time on Dota than them & eventually the relationship crash & burn. I don't think that's cool.

The next thing you should do in the conversation is to capture her attention, let her be interested in you, talk to her about things you & her like to do in common then ask her out. This is if you want her to be your gf.

For FB, I can't help you as all my current 4 FBs are known through clubbing or mutual friends in clubs. I never met a FB through Facebook or other social platforms before.

Bro mclovin,can you share me some tips on getting a gf? I kena friendzoned alot of times eh :| my friends say i am not a handsome guy but rather a cute guy. Any difference between the two?

[mclovin_boy]

Originally Posted by Forza458

Bro mclovin,can you share me some tips on getting a gf? I kena friendzoned alot of times eh :| my friends say i am not a handsome guy but rather a cute guy. Any difference between the two?

I had a friendzone encounter before. I was nerdy n totally uncool in secondary school too which is like 10 over freaking years ago. Had this huge crush on this school belle. Damn lucky to be able to sit beside her for 1 year. We got along damn well so after the O Levels, I confessed to her at our class chalet. She rejected me n wants to remain in the friendzone, saying I'm so cute. Now she's still so pretty but she realized I've made it n she says I'm handsome now.

The word cute is very vague. It can really mean cute-looking or it can mean 'cute-looking'. Eg, a cute looking male model vs a chubby looking cute boy. Don't you use the word cute to describe both situation? It may not mean anything too.

I feel if you want to get a gf, you gotta be financially stable first. The sad reality is that most gals look for a guy that can provide for them. I heard of gals that don't mind being with financially unstable dudes but how many cases of such things happen really? All my previous GFs and now a wife is super high maintenance. I can say my wife spends about $8K worth of shopping alone per month.

For the friendzone part, I am not sure cos I would just give up n stay as friends if the gal wishes. Maybe you can be persistent in wooing her n one day she will change her mind about you. Some gals like to test on how fast the guy gives up on the relationship so they sometimes tend to play hard to get. There's no tips really. Just be confident, responsible, financial stable, have the correct etiquette n manners (esp being punctual), be a listener & be yourself (don't try to be someone you isn't). You don't need to be handsome or cute in order to have a gf.

[SBS7888K]

Originally Posted by Forza458

Bro mclovin,can you share me some tips on getting a gf? I kena friendzoned alot of times eh :| my friends say i am not a handsome guy but rather a cute guy. Any difference between the two?

I feel you bro. I also kena Friendzoned

[Kalyan]

Its never been hard to differentiate. All depends on you.

I have been with very beautiful gals but I just want to have sex with them than to develop a relationship. I know for characters wise we cant go along. But of cos if you kno that the gal is really decent type dont poke your dick inside else endless troubles and you may just ruin the poor gal's life.
For gf to become wife, I will get those that can really get along with me at all times, able to understand me and I can appreciate her the same time. I am sure every guy goes for the same.
Btw, I dont like fb. For 2 reasons. If she just out for sex, you will have greater chance to get std than at legal joint. If she just do it because she interested with you, then it will be a tide up on long term.
For me, I will loot with a pretty gal with protection always n move on. At max 2-3 times with the same gal thats it. Even she give me v good memory I will control myself not to go bk again. Well, I am a person that hate to handle such problem.

[Forza458]

Originally Posted by SBS7888K

I feel you bro. I also kena Friendzoned

welcome to the club

[Forza458]

Originally Posted by mclovin_boy

I had a friendzone encounter before. I was nerdy n totally uncool in secondary school too which is like 10 over freaking years ago. Had this huge crush on this school belle. Damn lucky to be able to sit beside her for 1 year. We got along damn well so after the O Levels, I confessed to her at our class chalet. She rejected me n wants to remain in the friendzone, saying I'm so cute. Now she's still so pretty but she realized I've made it n she says I'm handsome now.

The word cute is very vague. It can really mean cute-looking or it can mean 'cute-looking'. Eg, a cute looking male model vs a chubby looking cute boy. Don't you use the word cute to describe both situation? It may not mean anything too.

I feel if you want to get a gf, you gotta be financially stable first. The sad reality is that most gals look for a guy that can provide for them. I heard of gals that don't mind being with financially unstable dudes but how many cases of such things happen really? All my previous GFs and now a wife is super high maintenance. I can say my wife spends about $8K worth of shopping alone per month.

For the friendzone part, I am not sure cos I would just give up n stay as friends if the gal wishes. Maybe you can be persistent in wooing her n one day she will change her mind about you. Some gals like to test on how fast the guy gives up on the relationship so they sometimes tend to play hard to get. There's no tips really. Just be confident, responsible, financial stable, have the correct etiquette n manners (esp being punctual), be a listener & be yourself (don't try to be someone you isn't). You don't need to be handsome or cute in order to have a gf.

Oh i get what you are trying to say. Thanks for sharing your short life story with belle. Hmmmm...I tried to woo my crush for 7 months but gave up in the end,7 months is quite a long time for chasing a girl. Ok got it. Thanks man

[mclovin_boy]

Haha. You can add me on MSN if u want, along the way I can guide u step by step but that is if I'm free. Haha. Btw, her name is not belle. School belle means one of the most attractive gal in school.

Haiz, sad I didn't get to up her. Still rem last time do sit ups, I always help her then confirm ZG, saw her pussy got no hair one lor. Until the teacher banned FBT n sch shorts can't see much already. Thought once during remedial, we kept talking about love n sex but in the end she still reject me. Wonder is she Les, now still single.

[casanova001]

Originally Posted by mclovin_boy

I had a friendzone encounter before. I was nerdy n totally uncool in secondary school too which is like 10 over freaking years ago. Had this huge crush on this school belle. Damn lucky to be able to sit beside her for 1 year. We got along damn well so after the O Levels, I confessed to her at our class chalet. She rejected me n wants to remain in the friendzone, saying I'm so cute. Now she's still so pretty but she realized I've made it n she says I'm handsome now.

The word cute is very vague. It can really mean cute-looking or it can mean 'cute-looking'. Eg, a cute looking male model vs a chubby looking cute boy. Don't you use the word cute to describe both situation? It may not mean anything too.

I feel if you want to get a gf, you gotta be financially stable first. The sad reality is that most gals look for a guy that can provide for them. I heard of gals that don't mind being with financially unstable dudes but how many cases of such things happen really? All my previous GFs and now a wife is super high maintenance. I can say my wife spends about $8K worth of shopping alone per month.

For the friendzone part, I am not sure cos I would just give up n stay as friends if the gal wishes. Maybe you can be persistent in wooing her n one day she will change her mind about you. Some gals like to test on how fast the guy gives up on the relationship so they sometimes tend to play hard to get. There's no tips really. Just be confident, responsible, financial stable, have the correct etiquette n manners (esp being punctual), be a listener & be yourself (don't try to be someone you isn't). You don't need to be handsome or cute in order to have a gf.

Agree. words of wisdom I don't know about the youngsters, but for adults they tend to be more practical. After all, one still needs bread rather than love in order to live in this world. Chemistry is important, but so is financial stability.

[Forza458]

Originally Posted by mclovin_boy

Haha. You can add me on MSN if u want, along the way I can guide u step by step but that is if I'm free. Haha. Btw, her name is not belle. School belle means one of the most attractive gal in school.

Haiz, sad I didn't get to up her. Still rem last time do sit ups, I always help her then confirm ZG, saw her pussy got no hair one lor. Until the teacher banned FBT n sch shorts can't see much already. Thought once during remedial, we kept talking about love n sex but in the end she still reject me. Wonder is she Les, now still single.

I seldom use MSN nowadays,not mainstream like last time haha any other way to contact you? zao geng-ed some of my chio bus classmates when i was in sec sch too the girl i going after also talks about love & sex but rejects me. Don't know why although she's not a lesbian.