delayed ejaculation

[tktan]

hi bros, i have a problem that has been an issue for many years. I can cum if i pcc but if i get a hj, bj or fj, i cannot cum even if my girl tries for 30 to 40 mins. it has been like this even from my first time.

any advice or recommendation what to do? i read online it is probably psychological, but i also dunno what's wrong. just wanna know if any bro has the same problem as me. i think i pcc too much when i was young and broke it. it is quite frustrating for my girl too, because she feels like she's not pleasing me enough and i feel bad too because i always have to end the session with me pccing. any advice will be much appreciated.

[sammyboyfor]

You need to stop porn and masturbation so that you can readjust to having real sex in order to achieve orgasm.

[Bulus]

TS maybe too much masturbation could be an issue, try and stop masturbating for a week and then see is there any improvement

[doombringer]

many fls go for fast and vigorous strokes, i couldnt cum even in 1 hour.
i had one fl actually give me long slow pumps and i cum within a matter of seconds. guide the ml/fl

[18sons]

Originally Posted by tktan

hi bros, i have a problem that has been an issue for many years. I can cum if i pcc but if i get a hj, bj or fj, i cannot cum even if my girl tries for 30 to 40 mins. it has been like this even from my first time.

any advice or recommendation what to do? i read online it is probably psychological, but i also dunno what's wrong. just wanna know if any bro has the same problem as me. i think i pcc too much when i was young and broke it. it is quite frustrating for my girl too, because she feels like she's not pleasing me enough and i feel bad too because i always have to end the session with me pccing. any advice will be much appreciated.

You need to stop PCC'ing for 30 - 60 days.. Go do the no fap.

[Souji117]

Having the same issue as well. Thought it was due to a lack of hardness. But after doing it the second time with the same woman a week later, i still could not feel anything at all. I couldn't cum after 10 minutes of poking due to a lack of sensation and had to visualise scenarios just to keep my cock hard. In the end, she had to finish me off with a mixture of bj and hj. This was also my virgin experience which really sucks...

[TheBladeRunner]

Originally Posted by doombringer

give me long slow pumps and i cum

Seems that when you are relaxed when having sex your body reverts back to normality

[decepticon73]

Me too... 45 mins - 1 hr cannot cum till i usually hj in front of ml. Already tried slow pump to try to enjoy it. Any other solution? Medicine?

[lightming]

This used to happen to me TS. Was quite worried as well, but found some advice online and completely stopped masturbating and porn. Was addicted for many years. Tough journey for about 2-3 months but eventually got used to it and its worth it in the long run.

If you rlly cannot tahan and need to release then do not death grip and choke your dick. Will reduce sensitivity.

Just my 2 cents from personal experience. All the best!

[Lamborg]

No need medicine. I experienced the same thing then I realised I was watching too much porn and pcc way too much that your kukubird kinda only reaches orgasm with your hand.

I stopped pcc for 1-2 weeks, give your lanjiao some time to recover and boom my 2ic became responsive again so shiok like your can literally feel the blood pump to your lanjiao veins during sex.