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Old 18-05-2010, 08:43 PM
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Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

Sigh… After the last few years cheonging and experiencing the good and bad of the sex scene, it’s time to hide away for a while to go into semi retirement. Why semi retirement? Bros here should know better that a leopard can never change its spots and I admit that I am one who can never change to lure myself away from occasional temptation and itch.

One good reason would most probably be that I have never been one to play, pay and walk away. Somehow or other I will get lured in with “feelings” that were unfortunately never returned. Some bros here call it never to develop KC for the girls you get involved with. Some of you may also remember that I had a post some time back that tells my true account of being stupid and developing feelings for a working girl. That story ended up with me spending almost all my savings and time, even thinking of ways to be absent from work so that I can devote my time to this good looking person only to be told off once she got what she wanted from a designer boutique. Well, stupid and silly enough I fell into this darn trap again but managed to pull myself out before falling deeper, in terms of spending. Thanks also to Sammy Boss for waking me up the last time round but silly of me to get into trouble again.

Of course I may not be fit enough to say what I am going to say next. That would be advice for active bros to play, pay and walk away. Never look back or you might regret it when you fall into the KC trap. Always keep in mind these girls follow the person with the deepest filled pocket. They can call you darling but keep in mind that you are just one of the many darlings they call everyday, waiting to sponge you off something that they always desired.

Not to forget that although working girls, they deserve a decent amount of respect as they are human too and do not expect them to perform out of their capabilities by compensating them with extra cash. But all that should end once you walk out of the room and you will feel more comfortable knowing that you need not worry about who the girl will be calling darling the next minute.

With that said, I will end this here and but of course, occasionally satisfy my itch and contribute an account of my future stints for bros to enjoy. Bros who feel that they have wasted their time reading through this post, I truly apologise for wasting your time. To the bros who find this post good enough to serve as a reminder when cheonging, all the best to you. Maybe telling my story gives me a level of comfort to a certain level but at least I think I should share this experience with my fellow bro out there. Till my next post, have a good week ahead.

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Old 18-05-2010, 09:11 PM
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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

Actually when comin out to cheong, no matter how season or how pro u are, it is only a matter of time before u meet one that will capture ur heart n attention. If u wan avoid such situations, quit this habit lo. But this habit is damn hard to kick off, Dont u guys agreed?

i myself also pretty scared and hated encountering girls that can cause a stir in my heart. Cos i know at the end of the day, if i really fall for it, i will be the one losing.....

Anyway interestin read from TS.
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Old 18-05-2010, 10:04 PM
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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

There will always be the hope that she is different from the rest and wants to get away from it all if she can find someone who is stable, loves her and takes good care of her. They are in turn gentle, understanding, compliant and gives you a good time in bed. It strums something within the heart, making you wish what you have was not just paid for with money but from a real relationship based on feelings.

From time to time, most of us would have felt that way.

I recognize that as the alarm bells going off. Of course they should have the benefit of the doubt, that no one would have entered this trade willingly and all they want is just some stability and they will exit the stage. But there are simply too many stories out there to take the risk. A huge majority of them will have hardened their hearts and look for a couple of skinnings to make it and are probably well versed in knowing which type to target. Yet we are only humans and have hope, and want to have hope.

In this circumstances, not a good decision to have any of it. When there is doubt and conflict, it is there for a good reason. Don't feel bad in rejecting her request or whatsoever. You would not be the first one to have done that.

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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

Good decision bro, and someday we all need to go through the stage - from work or from the commercial sex, if you find the urge to come back then welcome back anytime to make yourself happy.

Happiness is 1st priority in the commercial sex scene
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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

I find that ktv girls are easier to have further developements compared to wl or fls. Some would accompany you a whole day plus sex if you just pay ard $200-$300. Good opportunity to get heavy kc. My usual way to prevent it is just casually talked about who of her colleagues I have bedded also. Dampens any potential kc if she feels that you have been around and know how it plays.
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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

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......... Till my next post, have a good week ahead.

Cheers.
Hi brother, same here been chionging for years particularly in Vietnam and Thailand and gone through the good, bad and ugly all these years and getting bored and tired liao. Now login occasionally to 6c6c only.

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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

I am into semi-retirement too.
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Old 20-05-2010, 10:14 PM
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Re: Semi retirement... And advice for bros...

Bros thanks so much for your insights.
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I find that ktv girls are easier to have further developements compared to wl or fls.
KTV girls, FLs, WLs.... what's the freakin' difference????

You can call them what you like but they're all WHORES! Mucking around with symantics isn't going to change anything.
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KTV girls, FLs, WLs.... what's the freakin' difference????
the difference is when real emotions are involved. not all of them are as what we generally perceive them to be - blood sucking, money grabbing and heartless creatures.

i have said my piece and now hold my peace. g'day boss and cheers!
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KTV girls, FLs, WLs.... what's the freakin' difference????

You can call them what you like but they're all WHORES! Mucking around with symantics isn't going to change anything.
This is absolutely true Boss Sam FL by the day and KTV ger by the night

I am happy that at least I have gone through these experiences in the commercial sex and is memorable.
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KTV girls, FLs, WLs.... what's the freakin' difference????

You can call them what you like but they're all WHORES! Mucking around with symantics isn't going to change anything.
Well, boss, I'd put it down as due to different Modus Operandi.

FLs & WLs have a shorter time period for them to apply whatever voodoo on love-starved bros. While KTV girls could just sit beside you for hours (depending on how popular she is actually) to listen to you rambling about whatever shit you're going through then.

Supposedly, this creates a bond and, gods forbid, an illusion that she actually cares about you. So, if your will and logic is somehow unsound, other guys would hear the sound of a chopper dicing up carrots while the KTV girl would hear the sound of a cash register.
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From time to time, most of us would have felt that way.

I recognize that as the alarm bells going off. Of course they should have the benefit of the doubt, that no one would have entered this trade willingly and all they want is just some stability and they will exit the stage. But there are simply too many stories out there to take the risk. A huge majority of them will have hardened their hearts and look for a couple of skinnings to make it
I think I am another fool who fell for a WL. She told me she loves me too and she knows that I don't have much money since I'm working part time and studying university part time. We talked about getting married in Thailand when she finishes her stint as a legal broad in GL and I told I might not be able to afford anything and she said don't worry, she has the money by then. So far, I spent quite a bit on her - some bookings and almost 10 short times. She never asked for anything - gifts or whatever, I just bought her a doll and food that she loves and she's giggling like a little gal. Seems easily satisfied to me.... so i don't really know she loves me or for my money?? I'm poor and she knows it... maybe i should fuck and forget... but then again, it's sometimes easier said than done... you bros all are lao jiao liao... so pls tell me what should i do?
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so pls tell me what should i do?
Stop going to GL and hook up with normal gals?
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... so pls tell me what should i do?
So basically you think you entered a booby trapped cave and hope to evade all the spears and boulders and burning oil hoping to find the fabled treasure, if it is there in the first place.

You say you are in U, so maybe she is making long term investment ? Back off and chill bro, don't go there.
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