what do you guys think?

[Midnight2U]

I've been in this relationship with my gf for a considerable amount of time and we have generally been very happy together but every couple have their fair share of arguments and quarrels. Recently things seem to have taken for a worse because by the end of the night, we always part on unhappy terms.

This information came to me by chance since we shared a same acc ( it was too troublesome for her to create her own acc ), some of her backed-up data had somehow mistakenly synced into my phone as well. There was this particular reminder which she made on her calendar which said that honey is back. (sweet right ?) initially i thought it was meant for me, ( don't ask me why but my mind stupidly misread it thinking that it was somehow related to me ) but looking back at it again I knew that it was definitely not referring to me...

[nuclearkid]

When I saw the title, I thought Teo Chee Hean started a thread here...

Back to your problem, how bad do you want this relationship? How bad you want it is a lot different from how much you don't want to lose it. The point about the latter is that some people hang on by the force of habit and not because they find merit in their relationship anymore. If you are ready to walk away, here's your excuse to make it happen. Otherwise, a simple clarification may help. Afterall, its was an honest mistake and you were not snooping around her private information. You have every moral right to clarify on that doubt.

[sane]

Originally Posted by Midnight2U

There was this particular reminder which she made on her calendar which said that honey is back. (sweet right ?) initially i thought it was meant for me, ( don't ask me why but my mind stupidly misread it thinking that it was somehow related to me ) but looking back at it again I knew that it was definitely not referring to me...

Juz ask her direct. Honey might meant her BFF or juz been there for a long long time before u appear in her life.

It's v mentally draining to always quarrel over trival issues.

[unsung80]

Sorry sir, what is your question again?

[queeniegal]

Ha most likely is BBF I have a guy friend whom I know for 10 year plus he know most of my insight. Whenever I go holiday he sure have present from me. Bf might nt have cause ex bf very choosy haha

[sane]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Ha most likely is BBF I have a guy friend whom I know for 10 year plus he know most of my insight. Whenever I go holiday he sure have present from me. Bf might nt have cause ex bf very choosy haha

waah so early but hor, i wont call my bro bff honey leh..gross but sis bff yes, we call each other luv,dearie etc.

However it could be the ex of the gal too since it's backup file so could be in there for long as she nvr delete

[ahsam]

Don't be pessimistic. If she has got other agenda, I don't think she will share an account with u la.

[yangguo]

Well. no point guessing.

Why don't you have a heart-to-heart talk with her?

Stay calm and make sure you do not raise your voice when you are asking her.

Bear in mind this phrase:" 爱情不是寻找共同点，而是尊重不同点"