What if a maid ask for "help" after....

[tungsten]

.... first time meeting (without sex)? Say an amount like 350.

General scenario. Get to know this girl from net and met first time over coffee. Hint family have issue but yet able to smile and reply text to friends. Pop question to go hotel and will help after... say cannot due to menses... ok, leave it as that. After that WhatsApp and ask for 350 loan. I was like, wah you really think Singapore guys are idiots.

This is not even asking about whether should transfer or not. Obviously we should not transfer at all. Just like to see what kind of creative ideas the bros here have.

General tactics of the girls
1) you dun trust me (guilt trap)
2) it's really an emergency... someone going to die (ya right... every time someone in family die)
3) cannot have sex now cos menses, will do when solve (obvious bullshit)
4) no mood now cause got issue at home (yah... but got mood to dress nice and come out)
5) ai yah. I know you poor and no money. Talk big only. (Reverse psychology)

Of course we know the following cardinal rule apply. You can be generous but dun be stupid. Want to transfer also after have sex right. Sometimes I wonder how many bros let small head rule their big head and transfer money out.

[JOGK]

Originally Posted by tungsten

.... first time meeting (without sex)? Say an amount like 350.

General scenario. Get to know this girl from net and met first time over coffee. Hint family have issue but yet able to smile and reply text to friends. Pop question to go hotel and will help after... say cannot due to menses... ok, leave it as that. After that WhatsApp and ask for 350 loan. I was like, wah you really think Singapore guys are idiots.

This is not even asking about whether should transfer or not. Obviously we should not transfer at all. Just like to see what kind of creative ideas the bros here have.

General tactics of the girls
1) you dun trust me (guilt trap)
2) it's really an emergency... someone going to die (ya right... every time someone in family die)
3) cannot have sex now cos menses, will do when solve (obvious bullshit)
4) no mood now cause got issue at home (yah... but got mood to dress nice and come out)
5) ai yah. I know you poor and no money. Talk big only. (Reverse psychology)

Of course we know the following cardinal rule apply. You can be generous but dun be stupid. Want to transfer also after have sex right. Sometimes I wonder how many bros let small head rule their big head and transfer money out.

Bro ..so far all i know never talk about asking $$$ or whatever
If i want to pay for sex i can go to better places
Its a no no for me if its about money
Whether you believe or not its up to you
When i know a maid ..i will test her all the way
I wouldnt tell her i am rich or what
Infact i told them i am jobless
They even paid for the meal
No bullshit ..
Thats me ..
If she pass my test
I will keep her
Thats what i am doing
Thats why i never share contact
Unless its a paid service i dont mind

[tungsten]

Originally Posted by JOGK

Bro ..so far all i know never talk about asking $$$ or whatever
If i want to pay for sex i can go to better places
Its a no no for me if its about money
Whether you believe or not its up to you
When i know a maid ..i will test her all the way
I wouldnt tell her i am rich or what
Infact i told them i am jobless
They even paid for the meal
No bullshit ..
Thats me ..
If she pass my test
I will keep her
Thats what i am doing
Thats why i never share contact
Unless its a paid service i dont mind

I just approve your post and up your points for replying with an insightful message.

I believe what you say. Law of large numbers. Not all maids are gold diggers, there are some pretty nice ones.

However I am talking about a long term strategy that we can use without resorting to lying. Personally I feel that there is no need for us to lie when they are obviously cheating us. At the same time, I am pretty sure that some bros will start to use the "I am jobless" line pretty soon... which reduce its effectiveness. Just my personal thoughts.

[Tai_zi21]

Originally Posted by tungsten

.... first time meeting (without sex)? Say an amount like 350.

General scenario. Get to know this girl from net and met first time over coffee. Hint family have issue but yet able to smile and reply text to friends. Pop question to go hotel and will help after... say cannot due to menses... ok, leave it as that. After that WhatsApp and ask for 350 loan. I was like, wah you really think Singapore guys are idiots.

This is not even asking about whether should transfer or not. Obviously we should not transfer at all. Just like to see what kind of creative ideas the bros here have.

General tactics of the girls
1) you dun trust me (guilt trap)
2) it's really an emergency... someone going to die (ya right... every time someone in family die)
3) cannot have sex now cos menses, will do when solve (obvious bullshit)
4) no mood now cause got issue at home (yah... but got mood to dress nice and come out)
5) ai yah. I know you poor and no money. Talk big only. (Reverse psychology)

Of course we know the following cardinal rule apply. You can be generous but dun be stupid. Want to transfer also after have sex right. Sometimes I wonder how many bros let small head rule their big head and transfer money out.

Trust me when I say in Singapore there a lot of shining white knight ready to help them without touching them...

I have a maid telling me got guy buy for her coach bag just to meet up... and she does look good...

$350? Imagine the money you can do with Thai FL? To me top up a simple meal go out eat no prob... move on to the next target bro... plenty of maids in Singapore

[JOGK]

Originally Posted by tungsten

I just approve your post and up your points for replying with an insightful message.

I believe what you say. Law of large numbers. Not all maids are gold diggers, there are some pretty nice ones.

However I am talking about a long term strategy that we can use without resorting to lying. Personally I feel that there is no need for us to lie when they are obviously cheating us. At the same time, I am pretty sure that some bros will start to use the "I am jobless" line pretty soon... which reduce its effectiveness. Just my personal thoughts.

This current one still with me
When i first date her she told me over the phone
DONT WORRY..I WONT ASK YOU TO TOP UP CARD OR ASK YOU FOR MONEY
wow good i like straightforward kind
Until now .. i bet she spend more than i spend
She even asked me if i need money
Dont worry bro ..i wont cheat her
I will pay her and reward her back in times to come
I can assure you there are only a minority looking for money
Those scammers you can find working in sleazy places
Anyway be careful of scammers
I know one working in makati as a salesgal
I even recorded a video call with her
Like i said .. only a minority is looking for money only
Some just wanna have fun ..just be friends
Just like our local gals also i know them and have sex with them

[JOGK]

Originally Posted by tungsten

I just approve your post and up your points for replying with an insightful message.

I believe what you say. Law of large numbers. Not all maids are gold diggers, there are some pretty nice ones.

However I am talking about a long term strategy that we can use without resorting to lying. Personally I feel that there is no need for us to lie when they are obviously cheating us. At the same time, I am pretty sure that some bros will start to use the "I am jobless" line pretty soon... which reduce its effectiveness. Just my personal thoughts.

Upz you back bro
Have a nice day

[thecat]

Need to ask if you are okay to give away $350 for nothing in return.
If you don't wish to, then be firm with your decision.

If you wish to get something in return, then tell her what you want.
if she refused, then don't bother asking anymore.

She can ask you for help, can ask anyone else for help as well.

[tungsten]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

Trust me when I say in Singapore there a lot of shining white knight ready to help them without touching them...

I have a maid telling me got guy buy for her coach bag just to meet up... and she does look good...

$350? Imagine the money you can do with Thai FL? To me top up a simple meal go out eat no prob... move on to the next target bro... plenty of maids in Singapore

more like shining white knight with no brains as its filled by sperms... hahaha

Actually has already discounted her when she try to prep me the day before meeting with a sad face picture lying on the bed. Just play along and kiss her on lips and hold her hands on the initial meeting. The only thing caught slightly off guard is telling me she need money AFTER we separated... which is a very smart move for her since there is no loss to her at all...

[tungsten]

Originally Posted by JOGK

Until now .. i bet she spend more than i spend
She even asked me if i need money
Dont worry bro ..i wont cheat her
I will pay her and reward her back in times to come

Good. Steady bro.

[tungsten]

Originally Posted by funboi

you must understand... there are "some" man the heart "too soft" so end up losing money to girls.

Doesn't matter what kind of girls. Low class mid class high class. So long they keep trying and "ask help", some day "some guy" will fall into it and regret. Then the girls try one time succeed and will keep trying since they don't lose anything.

Got one girl i know she scammed so many sg guys and tried scam me but tio me she suay and guai guai vomit back the money and the money she scam from guys are in thousand and tens of thousands.

Its not heart soft. Its Siao Chong Nao.

You mean she did not spend the money that she cheated? She pass you the money or back to victims? Sounds like an interesting story. Mind sharing?

[tungsten]

Originally Posted by funboi

of course spent lah till finished 555. Cheated a few guys money in sg for few years i think and i'm probably the only one managed to recall it back later. Its all documented here. > https://sbfsg.social/showthread.php?p=...3#post18045773

Well done! Added your points.

[hayhay]

Originally Posted by JOGK

Bro ..so far all i know never talk about asking $$$ or whatever
If i want to pay for sex i can go to better places
Its a no no for me if its about money
Whether you believe or not its up to you
When i know a maid ..i will test her all the way
I wouldnt tell her i am rich or what
Infact i told them i am jobless
They even paid for the meal
No bullshit ..
Thats me ..
If she pass my test
I will keep her
Thats what i am doing
Thats why i never share contact
Unless its a paid service i dont mind

Of coz you only take maid picture and pay them.

Why all the bullshit talking, saying maid pay ur meal I think they see you old lah. That’s what you want people to pity old lier

[hayhay]

Originally Posted by JOGK

This current one still with me
When i first date her she told me over the phone
DONT WORRY..I WONT ASK YOU TO TOP UP CARD OR ASK YOU FOR MONEY
wow good i like straightforward kind
Until now .. i bet she spend more than i spend
She even asked me if i need money
Dont worry bro ..i wont cheat her
I will pay her and reward her back in times to come
I can assure you there are only a minority looking for money
Those scammers you can find working in sleazy places
Anyway be careful of scammers
I know one working in makati as a salesgal
I even recorded a video call with her
Like i said .. only a minority is looking for money only
Some just wanna have fun ..just be friends
Just like our local gals also i know them and have sex with them

Why bullshit again, lier

[desantos0773]

Maid who ask for money will bleed you dry. My wife once a maid never asked for money when we were courting but coukd tell she was struggling and gave her money to help. Once she asked for top up when waiting for her salary to phone home. She hates waisting and spending money. Never asks for anything and will not go shopping. I have to surprise. Not many like that but they are around. Most of her friends try to borrow money from her but she knows they will never pay her back. She pretends I keep her bank cards.