i hate PE

[nivleknat]

i just need an outlet to vent my frustrations. eversince i realised, i have PE, self confidence just dived. i think it made having sex even worse because most of the time i am worried about controlling it.. not very successful though.

so i recently am available again. not because of PE just other reasons, and being a man, i have my needs. just want to go bang a FL or go to geylang but the thought of spending money and done in a min really dont make it appealing. and making to look damn stupid in front of the girls.

it's really getting me down. i tried using a numbing spray but if the girl is not proactive, i will lose my erection and with the spray, it make erection even more difficult. damn it. i didn't use to have problems like this and really enjoy having sex. i can't go back to using what i was using before because it isnt legal. so here i am. stuck in the pits. hate it.

[sammyboyfor]

Jerk off one hour before visiting a whore. You should be able to get your money's worth after that.

Alternatively negotiate for 2 shots... one in the first minute and the next one towards the end.

[Aladeen]

if i jerked off 1 hour before visiting usually i ended up saving the money...

[nivleknat]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Jerk off one hour before visiting a whore. You should be able to get your money's worth after that.

Alternatively negotiate for 2 shots... one in the first minute and the next one towards the end.

thanks for the advise. that being said, need to find a FL who's more responsive. just went for one recently. she was so dead i sent her away in 30 mins time.

[nivleknat]

Originally Posted by Aladeen

if i jerked off 1 hour before visiting usually i ended up saving the money...

hahah. this sounds familiar

[H555]

Originally Posted by nivleknat

it's really getting me down. i tried using a numbing spray but if the girl is not proactive, i will lose my erection and with the spray, it make erection even more difficult. damn it. i didn't use to have problems like this and really enjoy having sex. i can't go back to using what i was using before because it isnt legal. so here i am. stuck in the pits. hate it.

What numbing spray u used bro?

[nivleknat]

Originally Posted by H555

What numbing spray u used bro?

Bro, i am using the gambir spray i read about online here. do you have any suggestions?

[hakone]

Originally Posted by nivleknat

Bro, i am using the gambir spray i read about online here. do you have any suggestions?

Bro, you mean gambir will make your dick feel numb?

[SEAJ]

Hugh Hefner states that viagra is his best recreational drug.

If one is confident of getting AND maintaining an erection, then one can have much better control against PE. I think it's got something to do with us guys NOT being able to think of too many things when confronted by a nubile young body! Only one thing at a time! LOL.

Lots of reasons for PE - mostly in the head - and being over-anxious about getting/maintaining erection results in similar auto-motor response as ejaculating.

At least try it! No harm doing so.
In fact a friend got prescribed Viagra by his doctor friend for PE and it totally worked for him!

SEAJ

Ps. Hmmmm.... just noticed that Dr. Tan is on this Section - any comments Dr. Tan? I got any basis for suggesting the above?

[conquer]

Originally Posted by hakone

Bro, you mean gambir will make your dick feel numb?

Yes. One of my friend used it to PCC and claimed that he wanked his shaft like an hour long still cannot cum.

[Gaambirsarawak]

Originally Posted by ilovejuagen

Bro Nivleknat,

I am using these 2 sprays which are not numbing like gambir and their effect are awesome. Easily 25mins not cumming.

By the way, I am already 43 yo.

PM me if you want the info for the spray.

So long after applying one feel numb that means is enough. Do not over applied the spray or solution.

[hakone]

Too last longer quit smoking, regular workout, do pelvic floor exercise.

[nivleknat]

Originally Posted by SEAJ

Hugh Hefner states that viagra is his best recreational drug.

If one is confident of getting AND maintaining an erection, then one can have much better control against PE. I think it's got something to do with us guys NOT being able to think of too many things when confronted by a nubile young body! Only one thing at a time! LOL.

Lots of reasons for PE - mostly in the head - and being over-anxious about getting/maintaining erection results in similar auto-motor response as ejaculating.

At least try it! No harm doing so.
In fact a friend got prescribed Viagra by his doctor friend for PE and it totally worked for him!

SEAJ

Ps. Hmmmm.... just noticed that Dr. Tan is on this Section - any comments Dr. Tan? I got any basis for suggesting the above?

thank for for this comment. i have been wondering about this too.

[DoctorVChia]

Originally Posted by nivleknat

thank for for this comment. i have been wondering about this too.

Some andrologists believe that having erectile dysfunction (like for e.g. being able to maintain an erection for only 1 minute) can contribute psychologically to wanting to ejaculate earlier/faster during intercourse. Quoting from the Mayo Clinic, "Men who are anxious about obtaining or maintaining an erection during sexual intercourse may form a pattern of rushing to ejaculate, which can be difficult to change."

In such cases, treating ED also treats the PE.

http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-c...s/con-20031160

[SEAJ]

Originally Posted by DoctorVChia

Some andrologists believe that having erectile dysfunction (like for e.g. being able to maintain an erection ....

In such cases, treating ED also treats the PE.
http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-c...s/con-20031160

Great! Thanks!
So there IS scientific backing for my belief.
Good to know.

SEAJ