Like a girl with bf

Parkerlon · #1 08-02-2014, 01:31 AM

Hi bros/sis, need some advice as first time like a girl but she already has a bf. But she hinted she will eventually break off wif her bf, and not because of my existence (they already are at war before I come in the picture). Should I just wait for her or move on?

demonhunter · #2 08-02-2014, 01:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Parkerlon

Hi bros/sis, need some advice as first time like a girl but she already has a bf. But she hinted she will eventually break off wif her bf, and not because of my existence (they already are at war before I come in the picture). Should I just wait for her or move on?

I say go for it , Its fair game .

Parkerlon · #3 08-02-2014, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by demonhunter

I say go for it , Its fair game .

Ty bro for your advice. Be it good or bad appreciate. Ya will go out with her but tell her tat we are good frens relationship. This is the mature way to handle

Till they break then I officially will chase her

maxsee · #4 08-02-2014, 09:29 AM

Definitely do not go after her till she is out of her current relationship....try to ask her to work things out with her current bf...coz if u do go after her now...be prepared next time other people will do the same thing to your gf...there is this thing call karma...

damong777 · #5 08-02-2014, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Parkerlon

Ty bro for your advice. Be it good or bad appreciate. Ya will go out with her but tell her tat we are good frens relationship. This is the mature way to handle

Till they break then I officially will chase her

Good choice as if not later, she may do the same to you when you are in a relationship.

So better be a gentleman now

Parkerlon · #6 08-02-2014, 07:34 PM

Thanks bro for all your advice. Will keep relationship as frens

toyomi100 · #7 08-02-2014, 09:47 PM

Bro

Got chance for you. Precious the opportunity

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Originally Posted by Parkerlon

she hinted she will eventually break off wif her bf, and not because of my existence (they already are at war before I come in the picture).

Johnbass · #8 09-02-2014, 11:11 AM

If she is chiobu...
You wait at the side, many others will also be waiting at the side.
So the one who gets her next will be the one who 先下手为强 (xian xia shou wei qiang... Strike first)
But must have mutual feelings lah.

Wintermelontea · #9 10-02-2014, 12:15 PM

not to flame you TS...

you may be a gentleman but how sure are you that she will be a lady towards you (when you are with her and the same happens to you both aka like her current situation with bf).

just thinking aloud...

Parkerlon · #10 10-02-2014, 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

not to flame you TS...

you may be a gentleman but how sure are you that she will be a lady towards you (when you are with her and the same happens to you both aka like her current situation with bf).

just thinking aloud...

Yup I know I very wrong. Should not be a third party till they break off completely. We are now in a very good friends relationship zone. It is a very complicated relationship. But when I m with her I m very happy. I have never even touch her hand as I know this will be over the good friends zone. Sometimes I wonder can a guy and gal be very good friends? Meaning no sex involved at all, cos I have never thought of it

maxsee · #11 11-02-2014, 07:37 AM

I think it is entirely possible to be in a platonic relationship with a girl...at least for me....

Johnbass · #12 11-02-2014, 08:13 AM

Another TS bites the dust...

RagingMogi · #13 11-02-2014, 08:40 AM

Let's face it, bf or not, we bros have a tendency to like girls (at least in general)
Karma aside, the relationship in question seems kinda on the rocks so at least IMO ... It should be cool expressing interest in her if the feelings are strong.

Be her friend and a gentleman till the time is ripe and then strike hard, (assuming u have ascertained the feeling is mutual)

Just my 2cents worth... Good Luck to bro TS

Parkerlon · #14 11-02-2014, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by RagingMogi

Let's face it, bf or not, we bros have a tendency to like girls (at least in general)
Karma aside, the relationship in question seems kinda on the rocks so at least IMO ... It should be cool expressing interest in her if the feelings are strong.

Be her friend and a gentleman till the time is ripe and then strike hard, (assuming u have ascertained the feeling is mutual)

Just my 2cents worth... Good Luck to bro TS

Yup she already know I like her and she did not reject me or accept me. Still very complicated

sadsky18 · #15 12-02-2014, 08:00 AM

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Yup she already know I like her and she did not reject me or accept me. Still very complicated

ts , you are what we call a safety net in her mindset ....
or rather a spare tyre ....

you will come handy when she had more problem in the future ( cos goox frennnnn mah )