Ladies, would you date unemployed?

[dunkendon]

When I got fired from my last job, I took a very shitty job to survive. And I couldn't bring myself to continue dating during that time and i know the girl would not like it.

Now that I'm laid off and indefinitely unemployed, I have a hard time believing any woman would want to date a man who cannot carry his own weight. Much less help and provide for her.

I know this is a toxic mindset to have; believing that I am undatable with nothing to offer a woman when in professional turmoil. But I've seen it myself where a woman will gladly be the breadwinner in the relationship, even if her partner doesn't work at all.

[cestycesty]

Well my friends and i are in the gig industry earning probably 4-8K a month depending on seasonal demand. Some of are married to pretty high flyers women earning easily 3-4 times more average than our best months. Women does not want men who whine about how tough life is. They know how tough life can be.. Everyone knows. They prefer people not just men, that they hang out with, try their best to make their own lives better including making smart decisions. Whether who is the main breadwinner in the relationship is up to them the couple to decide. If you are simply just looking for one successful lady to provide for you for absolutely no reason at all then don't waste your time. What do you have to offer...... ask yourself that.

[entering]

Originally Posted by dunkendon

When I got fired from my last job, I took a very shitty job to survive.

But I've seen it myself where a woman will gladly be the breadwinner in the relationship, even if her partner doesn't work at all.

Bro, have you tried applying aggressively on CareersFuture?

When I resigned voluntarily during the peak of Covid in Apr 2020, from CareersFuture, every month I think I got at least 1 interview.

Most of the jobs I rejected but that said, their pay and conditions werent too bad.