Hubby checking out Exs on facebook

[yying]

Originally Posted by Andy5388

Is there anything abnormal other than he looking for exs? My suggestion, don't be paranoid, or you can say, we look together. Its not wrong to be honest.

Don't want to let him know I know but don't know whether I should let him know lol

[yying]

Originally Posted by arsenal_84

when you have double standards, you expect him to be the same standard as you...what a joke.
learn to treat him as the same way he treat you, a marriage is 2 ways if only 1 hand is clapping, sooner or later you end up losing him.

U r right, I do have double standards
The things I can do he cannot do
He dotes on me a lot but I guess I feel lousy he does it behind my back

[yying]

I'm feeling better now, I over-reacted
Thanks everybody!

[doubletap]

Has he just gave u a good sexxion? Tat u felt so good.....

[seventynine]

Originally Posted by yying

Nothing wrong, just don't like him doing it since he said those gals let him down. Don't understand why he still check them since they hurt him

a Chinese saying goes: 男人多情而长情, 女人专情而绝情.
"Men tend to have feelings for many women because they are sentimental.
Women tend to be faithful because they can be heartless"

Definitely not absolute nor universal but generally holds true for most.

Although they are now happily married and no longer in contact with me, I still check out my ex-GFs Facebook once in a while just to see how's life getting on for them.
Just plainly curious and I don't lose sleep over their posts or pictures

[yying]

Originally Posted by seventynine

a Chinese saying goes: 男人多情而长情, 女人专情而绝情.
"Men tend to have feelings for many women because they are sentimental.
Women tend to be faithful because they can be heartless"

Definitely not absolute nor universal but generally holds true for most.

Although they are now happily married and no longer in contact with me, I still check out my ex-GFs Facebook once in a while just to see how's life getting on for them.
Just plainly curious and I don't lose sleep over their posts or pictures

So profound! I have gotten over it and I didn't confront him. Just that moment, I felt affected. Yesterday I was beside him and he was using the search function to check out a sports person. I saw the last few profile searches pic from the side.. I saw A... he appeared to be nervous and said what are you looking at. Very obvious he is guilty

[maxsee]

Eh..why should u be bothered by this. You were cheating on ur husband on another thread with a grabdriver. I thought what comes around goes around

[seventynine]

Originally Posted by yying

So profound! I have gotten over it and I didn't confront him. Just that moment, I felt affected. Yesterday I was beside him and he was using the search function to check out a sports person. I saw the last few profile searches pic from the side.. I saw A... he appeared to be nervous and said what are you looking at. Very obvious he is guilty

Profound? Guess it's really a 'Mars & Venus' thing where women don't understand men just like men will never understand women lol...

You sure sounds like the type who'll give a good pinch if you catch him ogling other ladies in public

[Fazzyrim]

Originally Posted by yying

Recently saw hubby Facebook search page that he has been looking at his exs profiles. What should I do?

Honestly, though, we do that from time to time. Just to reminisce and keep the person human in our eyes and thoughts.

[alwaysalone]

Thinking of the past is normal and human are naturally curious.

If you give your hubby plenty of good sex and nothing to quarrel about, there is nothing for you to worry.

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by yying

We are married for 7 years

Your husband have seven-year itch

[SMen]

i always check up on my exs. To see how badly they are doing without me. lol

[conquer]

Originally Posted by yying

Recently saw hubby Facebook search page that he has been looking at his exs profiles. What should I do?

Your hubby is checking out his ex-es facebook pages; while you are checking out your hubby search history... seems like both of you have a common hobby, congratulation.

[acidicavex]

alot of marriage is kill with double standard handling. It goes both way example

some guys want to have boy night out but when gf or wife want gals night out they will make a scene.

Some gals want all type of attention from ex to bosses but when on the street some chick flash a smile only at their current beau they can pick a fight right there right on the spot.

And many such relationship doesn't last.

So good luck i can only say see open life will be better.

[jd12345]

Another brainless woman posting here seeking advice for a failing marriage done in by double standards. Uninstall life bitch, women these days brainless af