Anyone Here Have A Viet GF?

[longbow888]

Originally Posted by Acidman

You mean not touch your gf or wife? will you divorce your wife for your gf? Wat happens if you find that you love your gf more than your wife?

not touching my GF. wife still have to touch...routine routine

that's no reason you lv a girl after you meet her only a few time, especially in the pub, right? Love and good marriage require too many elements--trust, appreciation, personality, life style, life goal, most importantly, attitude towards money. I won't marry a pub girl coz i won't find out above things in a short time.

Also, the couple has to experience many things to understand each other before they can declare they are heavenly matched. but how many things can you do with you pub girl? 1, drink, 2 lunch, 3 dinner, 4 supper, 5, shopping, 6, possibly travel to her home town. but these are far from enough.

Conclusion: I am in one nightmare already. so I don't want another no matter how much I lv my GF now. Love always tastes sweet at the beginning but could end up with real bitterness. I don't lie to them but nv promise them too much. I treat them well and enjoy having a pretty friend.

LOL. I am so pround of my gd self-consciouseness (ego...)

ps: anyone wants to cheong FA this friday, just drop me a sms 93920940. I introduce gd girl to you...keke.

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by newbadass

I rather just bonk those Viet girlfriends of those nice men waiting in the pubs. $80? $100? Small price lah!

Wise thinking.

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Wise thinking.

Just logical lah! It's only money... what is money?
It's not as if I am married with kids and heavy financial responsibilities and still wanna fool around behind my wife's back... of course got money to bonk those other men's girlfriends!

[ponkponk]

i used to have a Viet GF long time back. Got to know her at KTV. On that same night, we went MOS. Had A hell lot of fun that night. She can speak a quite abit of english so we can talk. She look quite like a local girl so when we went MOS and dance, just like a couple. That night nothing happen, she went back home herself by her own cab and wanted to drop me off my house FOC first as I am nearer but decline as I don't want her to know where I stay.
After that, I did ask her out for coffee once or twice(viet love to drink coffee, they say best in SG is starbucks). Then somehow I can't remember why I visited her house., she rents a apartment with a group of friends. Stayed over night at her house but that night i didn't bring con. So didn't action. I was doing my work on laptop and she sleep. Had also beer and food. Next morining she also cook. I think the second time I stayed with her, action. She wanted to do raw as she says feels better, she show me her medical hiv pass ,which she just took that week as she is a student by day and need to go for medical. But a big NONO for raw. No way. I persist and say..i don't want you baby blah blah..and lucky she agree with the con else no way. So guys here, please take note, don't let your small head take over!
So not to go so much on the dating game, on the whole, it was nice like BGR.
So we went on and on. normal stuffs. bang everynight I was with her. she cook. we had drinks/beer/martel, taught her english, i learn some viet language i paid for her food..once her birthday, bought a martel and paid for her 2 frens entry to MOS. Close 1 eye on the money as she was quite good on bed and off. The end point was that when she started feeling lazy and didn't go ktv work and ask me to help her with the rent. Then i started to think if i wanto throw so much money on her. i feel no long term with her. So i decide nono.. by the way, forgot to mention, she had 1 baby when she was 20 i think. baby with her ex-husband in malaysia think.

anway, just a word of advise as well, as u can see, this viet girl was quite nice, we had abit of romance but at the end of the day, its still about money. So if you think u don't see a future with her. just go. i was able to leave rather easy that time as i was busy w/ work and travelling. some feelings were there surely but it realy depends on what you want.

Anyway, now focusing on thai gf. but those in sg can't really make it. not want to hijack this threat, if anyone knows of any nice onces in SG. PM me.
Maype i should start a story on my thai ex-gfs in phuket and bangkok, the story wil be very interesting.

[Siao Juey Juey]

Originally Posted by Tango3

Hey,

I'm new here. Just need to know anyone has any gf from viet that they know in KTVs?

I do have a friend that spent almost 10k on the girl within a month & he was also married. He was so crazy of her & I was worried that he might ruin his own life.

Well, I just need to know how many guys here been through these & want to get more advise from you guys too.

Thk u in advance......

I spent 8 times more than your friend on a particular viet ger even though I have no intention to marry her. Had many viets and malaysians before but she is the only one that I spent so much.

The initial feeling was very strong...but now only a little left. Honestly, if they are WL there are no difference whether they are thais, viets, malaysians, PRCs or any other nationalities....money will always be their top priority initially. Can't blame them...since they are in such profession...they would have seen all kinds of men....most will not have much trust in love.

When it comes to feelings...sometimes very hard to predict and control...alot of people will swear that they will not fall for it...but this kind of thing you will never know....one fine day when that particular goddess appear...things might change....one good example is that uni professor in the news not too long ago. Just remember to let go when the time comes and move on with your life...cos there will still be alot of good things ahead to explore.

[crusadercruz]

I have two viet gfs during the 3+ years working in HCMC. One of them has a husband currently working in US. Her husband visits her 2-3 times a year and she was lonely. She is from Nha Trang and came to HCMC to work part time as a bartender, just to pass time. Got to know her at her work place, kept in touch and asked her out a couple of times and she slowly warmed up to me.

A pretty lady and knows how to dress well. She is the type that will catch guys' attention when she goes to pubs/ discos. Figure is excellent. Natural large breasts with flawless skin.

We start to go out regularly and she kept asking me who is she to me, how much i love her etc etc.. As you can see, issues start popping out. Then comes the financial part. I dun mind paying for drinks and food as it is only right. What I dun like is that she always like to go to discos/ pubs that her friends are working, and then ask all of them to come and sit and chat at my table. At the end of the day, she wants me to give ALL OF THEM tips. She wants to show them that she has a foreign bf now and she thinks it is only right for me to do so.

Then she starts to have more demands - financially and emotionally. She starts to get lazy and want to stop working. She wants some form of financial support from me, though she never openly ask for it. Initially I gave her enough to cover for food but not enough for luxuries. Then she complained cannot look good for me anymore because no $$ for new clothes/ accessories. I play stupid for a while.

No sooner she wants to know where i go at night, who i hang out with etc. Once I went to a pub with a MILF owner of another pub. She happens to be there with her friends and I only realised that when i saw her give me the cold stares. Worse is all (5-6 of them)her friends, whom i know, were all giving this unforgivable stares. i mean, WTF like as if i committed a crime or something. the thing is there are also other people at the same table and we did not even do anything but drink and look at people.

Then came the fights. We quarrel regularly. I stop going to joints that I know she will appear. Her friends call me and accuse me of being a bad bf and that they were wrong about me. It persists for 6 months.

Besides the two gfs, I also pick up FLs and hang out with other girls. This girl, we have been together for 2 years, though not together all the time. It starts to have a strain only in the last year. The whole episode ends when I know that I am to be transferred to another country. I told her and then when she finally realised what has happened, she came to see me and cried. Few days later when she was calmer, we had a good long talk and we are now friends.

My personal views:

1. There are Vietnamese girls that are nice people too. However, some of them will be very insecure and demand more from the relationship when they start to get serious.
2. Have short term relationships. Works better and you can look for other chais when one ends. Keep it fresh. Look for girls who are more matured in thinking.
3. Use resources that you would have.
4. Do not play with their feelings if none is ready to do long term. Some of them can become rather sticky.

And of course, last but not least, the all-time true statement: think with your big head, not with your small head.