Revelations of a PRC WL

[amostio]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

Yo bro TS,

Wow this is for real man !!!! Is this their modus operandi taught in china before they arrive here in singapore !!! Happening to me right now at this moment man ! Please read my thread on this same forum section under my nick.

Hi Jumbo,

Saw your thread too. Funny how these things happen over and over again to different people. Sometimes u get lucky and sometimes not so lucky. Mine was 2 years ago; you're still in yours. Hope things work out well for you.

[cablesnwires]

Camping here for more, good story. Would want to understand what's in her mind, that she came here initially, and later decided to stop coming back.

Please continue...

[amostio]

Well, this is the final installment.

Her answer at that time was simple yet totally unexpected for me. After reading other threads, I realized that many brothers here knows this. But for me, it was a revelation. I have never encountered it before. Before her, my principle was also F & F so have never entered the KC trap. So old birds please don't flame me if this is obvious to you.

Her revelation :

She told me that she was lonely!

As simple as that. I was the first customer she felt who treated her better.

Again at this point, I was truly hooked and landed. I offered to send money, anything to get her to come back. Her answer was a simple no. She did not want anything and would not come back ever again. She wanted to go back to her normal life, find a job, someone to love her and start a family. Here, I guess I was luckier than most. She could easily have reeled me in for the kill.

I was trying to understand her point of view. How could she be lonely? She was living here with 11 other girls in the same apartment. The daily routine was wake up, eat, work in BS, dinner, rush to Kabuki, supper, sleep and repeat the next day. Where got time to be lonely?

She explained that although she had come over with 3 other friend, they slowly found their own BF and spent less time with her. Even so, if she had a bad day, there was no one to talk to. She could not tell her friends or room mates her problems as they all have their own sad stories. Imagine when we tell our colleagues in the office : "Wah today damn jialat! Work like shit and still kanna scolding from the boss." Our colleagues will say : "You think you jialat. I work even harder than you and kanna scolded by 2 bosses!"

She could not confide in her family as they did not know she was a WL. It was her first time as a WL and I can imagine what she went through. She lost her dignity, have very low self-esteem and inferiority complex. Everyday was a struggle and she have no one to turn to. In a sea of misery, I guess I was her rock and anchor.

Why me then? Why not that rich guy who could afford to buy her jewelry without anything in return. She said to her, looks or money did not matter at that point. She was comfortable with me, I treated her well, share the same habits (drinking and f..king) and so she gave the only thing left she could offer.

Well that was that. She offered not only FOC (free, not credit) bonks but also physco-ed (if that's how it's spelled) herself into truly believing that she was in love with me then. That's how I could not detect at that time because she thought she herself believe it.

True love? Not really. At that point in time, maybe, so I guess enjoy it while it last.

There's not much more to tell. We still keep in touch till today and stayed friends. However, she'll not tell me much in her own personal life. I guess I was part of the past she'd rather forget.

Well brothers. Thanks for reading. For me, it was also to purge the old memories. Hope we all can learn something from this.

[Fishcer]

Originally Posted by amostio

Well, this is the final installment.

Her answer at that time was simple yet totally unexpected for me. After reading other threads, I realized that many brothers here knows this. But for me, it was a revelation. I have never encountered it before. Before her, my principle was also F & F so have never entered the KC trap. So old birds please don't flame me if this is obvious to you.

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True love? Not really. At that point in time, maybe, so I guess enjoy it while it last.

There's not much more to tell. We still keep in touch till today and stayed friends. However, she'll not tell me much in her own personal life. I guess I was part of the past she'd rather forget.

Well brothers. Thanks for reading. For me, it was also to purge the old memories. Hope we all can learn something from this.

Well...u got to enjoy what alot of bros here are hoping to get...so consider urself blessed then....

This are the type of relationships that i do look for, n i have had a small percentage of success...i will always aspire to be the rock in their life, the emotional pillar of support that shades them from the unrelenting glare of their somewhat demeaning job...if u can find 1 gal who looks upon u as that, just like the TS, then u've got it made

Some pple may say that i am a bastard, that i toy with the gal's feelings, but i beg to differ. Do always draw a clear n distinct line in the relationship if ur gonna play the game...always make it clear to the lady that there will not b a future, and that u r just there to be a friend, or an emotional support for them, and only for the limited time period that they are here for. Do not give them promises that u r unable to fulfil. If they are still fine about carrying on with the relationship, then by all means, go ahd.

Its basically a win-win situation, for both urself (free fuck?? n companionship) and for her (some1 who she does not have to think of as a customer, some1 she does not have to go all out to please/put on a mask to earn their money)...its a temporary escape from their work when they are with u.

BUT i do caution 1 thing, DO NOT DO NOT DO NOT gradually change ur viewpoint...pls dun at any pt of the relationship start thinking "Hey, i have a pretty nice gal here....y not throw myself fully into the relationship, and lets see if we can progress??"....when that happens, ur shit....

Sorry for all the blabbing TS...hope u dun mind...just my tots...cheers

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by amostio

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True love? Not really. At that point in time, maybe, so I guess enjoy it while it last.

There's not much more to tell. We still keep in touch till today and stayed friends. However, she'll not tell me much in her own personal life. I guess I was part of the past she'd rather forget.

Well brothers. Thanks for reading. For me, it was also to purge the old memories. Hope we all can learn something from this.

I see, and thank you for your final installment. It was a nice read.

Bro amostio, just a question for you, would you go up to visit her one day, regardless whether she asked you or not? Would definitely like to hear your views on this.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by amostio

Well, this is the final installment.

Her revelation :

She told me that she was lonely!

As simple as that. I was the first customer she felt who treated her better.

There's not much more to tell. We still keep in touch till today and stayed friends. However, she'll not tell me much in her own personal life. I guess I was part of the past she'd rather forget.

Well brothers. Thanks for reading. For me, it was also to purge the old memories. Hope we all can learn something from this.

Congrats to u for the beautiful experience.

However, as long as u keep in touch w/ her, I'm not sure this is the end of the rs.

Pls update us on any future developments.

Thx!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

All are humans.
Wealth and emotional needs must be fulfilled to make 1 whole.
So consider yourself lucky my dear TS.
Me been there too....so knows how u feel.....hahahaha
Wat you can embrace about everything is, ITS TRUE! Not a KC trap.
So keep this memory, and thank her for she had a choice on you, but she chose you for emotional and not CARROT HEAD status.
Congrats bro.

[amostio]

Originally Posted by amostio

Hi Jumbo,

Saw your thread too. Funny how these things happen over and over again to different people. Sometimes u get lucky and sometimes not so lucky. Mine was 2 years ago; you're still in yours. Hope things work out well for you.

Brother Jumbo, was reading the last few posts of your thread and realized that I have called you by nick directly. Sorry, my deepest apologies. No offense ,eamt.

[amostio]

Originally Posted by Fishcer

Sorry for all the blabbing TS...hope u dun mind...just my tots...cheers

Not at all. This is about sharing and I see you've being there before. Seems that altho I've being cheonging for 20 years, I'm a baby compared to most of the Bros here.

Originally Posted by cablesnwires

I see, and thank you for your final installment. It was a nice read.

Bro amostio, just a question for you, would you go up to visit her one day, regardless whether she asked you or not? Would definitely like to hear your views on this.

I was actually in Beijing 2 months back. Called to see her back she refused with some excuse. I guess there's still a small spark burning somewhere. But it's a small one. They say time heals all wounds.

Originally Posted by warbird

Congrats to u for the beautiful experience.

However, as long as u keep in touch w/ her, I'm not sure this is the end of the rs.

Pls update us on any future developments.

Thx!

Brother, I think you're right. But the spark is getting smaller and will burn itself out. Luckily, I think she has settled down and is very adamant about not seeing me anymore.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

All are humans.
Wealth and emotional needs must be fulfilled to make 1 whole.
So consider yourself lucky my dear TS.
Me been there too....so knows how u feel.....hahahaha
Wat you can embrace about everything is, ITS TRUE! Not a KC trap.
So keep this memory, and thank her for she had a choice on you, but she chose you for emotional and not CARROT HEAD status.
Congrats bro.

Thanks bro.

Final point is now I'm smack in the middle of another relationship; this time with a Viet. Same situation, different time and place. I guess it's what started me thinking of my PRC girl and starting this thread.

Well, that has not concluded but it's another story.....

[Beng69Lim]

bro. touching story

[Fatjumbo]

Originally Posted by amostio

Brother Jumbo, was reading the last few posts of your thread and realized that I have called you by nick directly. Sorry, my deepest apologies. No offense ,eamt.

No worries bro amostio,

Just made up my mind liao.... to terminate this BF/GF stuff... either revert back to gal/client or totally FCUK it...move on liao. Thanks for your blessings anyway.

Life has got too many other funs to keep bugging up one tree.... the whole forest out there is waiting man.

[Fishcer]

Originally Posted by amostio

Not at all. This is about sharing and I see you've being there before. Seems that altho I've being cheonging for 20 years, I'm a baby compared to most of the Bros here.

Evry1 starts out as baby....but nm....just slowly learn how to crawl then walk...there's no free lunch in this world

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by Fatjumbo

In my case when I initially give her money ( cos she spend time to be with me, not working at all. hence felt obliged to compensate her ) after going steady like insulting her as my GF. She don't want to be treated like WL, instead wanted attention as in GF status.

Bro Fatjumbo, these gals always applied such tactics. Initially, its $100 to $150 for 'buying' their time or even FOC, not a sexual transaction.

Later when become BF/GF.....they will asked you for monthly allowance of $2000 to $3000 a month or even more, buy Computer, Course fees, Mum and Dad's medical fees, Comestics, Handphones, Housing expenses/instalments etc. may sum up to $4000 to $5000 per month. So which one better??? And after you gave them monthly allowance and 'officially' become BF/GF, guess what, they are still working in KTV or HC and sleep with other men concurrently receiving gifts and money from those men. And we, LAN LAN look at them get played by other men and yet still GONG GONG pay for the GF everything.

Run far far away from them, pay for the bonk and forget them. If want to bonk again, just pay her again.

[ekemono]

The point to understand is this:
Every working gal clearly understood they are in a trade unfit for relationship. If they are serious for a guy, she will AUTOMATICALLY get out of this trade without even the guy demanding for it or commit certain agreement to her advantage (mostly monetary). They know they are in a trade that are harmful to a relationship.
But of course she will not go hungry for love, in fact in this new era not even you and I will.

If you ever get to know a gal that tells how much she loves you and would give up everything for you, but after that dutifully move their butt to their working place... I tell you; MOVE ON.

[slider_72]

Bro TS, be thankful that at least you have a revelation which brings about a closure at the end of this relationship.

With my girl who left Singapore not too long ago, we had a great relationship and the time spent together was beautiful. I shall not elaborate and bore you with the details. What was clear however was that it was not possible for us to continue in the long run unless she was prepared to be a kept woman, and even then we both knew that there would be many hurdles ahead.

Before she left, she told me that she will call me once she returns to China. Todate, I have not received any calls or sms from her. I have smsed her several times and called her China mobile number as well. I am sure the number has been activated as the ring tone is the same as the one she used when she was in Singapore but she did not pick up the call.

When I read your final instalment, it reminded me of something that she said. She said that once she goes back to China, things will go back to what they were before we met, ie that I will continue whoring. Why? Because WLs are so readily available in Singapore and in large numbers. For her she said that she will go back to her normal life, meaning stay at home, hang out with her cousins, etc but she will not be working in this industry back home.

Like you, money was never an issue in our relationship. If money was her aim, there was more than ample opportunities for her to ask when she was still around.

My guess is that after this cooling off period, she saw the futility of this relationship and that there is no future in it, hence decided to cut it off once and for all.

I reckon it might be better off this way. Without knowing the reason why she ex-communicated me, I can draw whatever conclusion I want. Now, only the bitter-sweet memories remain.