Single or attached, who is really more happy

[Bnzr]

Originally Posted by fusdccb

Got say like no say

Really accurate assessment

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by Andrea90

Being attached or single, which is happier ? guys and girls let vote

I prefer single.

a lot of couples are getting married for the sake of marriage.

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by ski7

Single or attached - why so black or white?

The question you should be asking is what state of mind (and body) are you in now?

- Independently single
- Dating and single
- Dating multiple people and transparent (meaning letting all parties know you are not looking for relationship; and doesn't exactly mean fuck buddies either)
- In a relationship
- In an open relationship
- Married

The issue is most people (men and women) don't know how to explore number 3 more thoroughly before deciding 'single or attached'.

It requires you to be fiercely transparent, independent, open and disciplined. I'm in my mid 30s now and after a long relationship in my late 20s I vowed to go on dating multiple people and being transparent.

You'd be surprised how many people want this but don't know how to go about asking it (and I don't mean sex nia).

Marriage is a commitment and something I take seriously and when it happens I don't want to fuck around and make excuses. Each to his own, but how many times you see celebrity kena fuck for fucking around when married e.g. Ben Affleck, Jude Law, etc.

Cibai just stay single, enjoy your independence and buffet sex until you decide otherwise.

i got this theory that human being is meant to live alone. Marriage is a cruel union of people ( if u find the wrong one)

Look at how many dead marriages out there.

[unsung80]

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

i got this theory that human being is meant to live alone. Marriage is a cruel union of people ( if u find the wrong one)

Look at how many dead marriages out there.

How about there are equally or more happy marriages out there too. Just a thought of the opposite.

[chaoslord]

Depends on what stage of life one is in.

It is good to be single when young and explore the various "opportunities" out there. The only problem is that men tend to be less matured in their early 20's and their wallets alot lighter compared to counterparts in their mid 30's.

Other considerations come into play when one reaches mid 30's. Mostly societal norms on getting married and building a family. Unfortunately this is the time when men tends to be most desirable to members of the opposite gender. Married men are popular as someone else has done the QC.

What's right and what's wrong is subjective. Monogamy is a societal construct and not a natural instinct. Definitely for men it is not but I am not saying that it is right. Play safe and don't get caught and have no regrets in whatever you do.

[Chungkeat]

When you’re single for long, you will be happy to be attached. When you’ve been attached for long, you’ll be happy to be single. Conclusion is we are all not contented with our lives.

[Greenfrog]

In Singapore, money is the thing that will determine your happiness.

[oddeye82]

Grass is always greener on the other side. No gf, wan gf. Married already wish not married then can play around with no worries. Haiz.

[Bullshitlar]

Originally Posted by chaoslord

Depends on what stage of life one is in.

It is good to be single when young and explore the various "opportunities" out there. The only problem is that men tend to be less matured in their early 20's and their wallets alot lighter compared to counterparts in their mid 30's.

Other considerations come into play when one reaches mid 30's. Mostly societal norms on getting married and building a family. Unfortunately this is the time when men tends to be most desirable to members of the opposite gender. Married men are popular as someone else has done the QC.

What's right and what's wrong is subjective. Monogamy is a societal construct and not a natural instinct. Definitely for men it is not but I am not saying that it is right. Play safe and don't get caught and have no regrets in whatever you do.

Sometimes QC can fail. People change over time or someone wear a mask for years.
Some husband n father for few kids for 20odd years can suddenly turn transgender

Some people wear mask until they got what they want then start to abuse you until divorce because thats what they wanted. They want the money or maybe kid. Once goal is reach, they abuse u until u vent anger or frustration or cheat then blame it on u. So they look like the victim.

Not all people are human, some are just animals
You married a nice person and you are a nice person with similar mentality n goals in life, you will be happy. If you married wrong then you have will see many coming here to post.

I seen afew police case before in other countries where the guy or girl hire a professional killer to kill their rich spouse after marriage.

[cronyman]

If you are single you get to play the field.

[cronyman]

Originally Posted by Greenfrog

In Singapore, money is the thing that will determine your happiness.

Sad but true bro. I agree.

[jenoroth]

If attached means getting married then staying single would definitely be better.

Otherwise just have a girlfriend for long term. No reason to sign that piece of paper and hand over your balls to and woman who can divorce rape you and take away everything you worked hard for.