Been going out with this WL

crazysgboy · #1 20-09-2016, 04:31 AM

So I have been going out with this WL who works at one of the Lorongs. Initially, I thought that she started talking to me (asked for my number after my 3rd session with her) just for my money, but it seems like it is not the case.

We have been seeing each other for 3 months plus, every time we go out, she buys food/clothes for me. Call and message me every waking hour etc. The moment i knew she was into me, was when she texted me to visit her, and she repaid me the damage costs to book her for 3 hours!

I feel like I have fallen in love with her too, but I know that this cannot last due to language barrier/ her nature of work etc.

Wat to do?

GN007SG · #2 20-09-2016, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by crazysgboy

So I have been going out with this WL who works at one of the Lorongs. Initially, I thought that she started talking to me (asked for my number after my 3rd session with her) just for my money, but it seems like it is not the case.

We have been seeing each other for 3 months plus, every time we go out, she buys food/clothes for me. Call and message me every waking hour etc. The moment i knew she was into me, was when she texted me to visit her, and she repaid me the damage costs to book her for 3 hours!

I feel like I have fallen in love with her too, but I know that this cannot last due to language barrier/ her nature of work etc.

Wat to do?

I have bold those words as it seems saying that means you are still being rationale.
if you are truly in love with someone, i dun think those issues will be bothering u.

any relationship with someone in this line of work will likely end up in misery.
what makes it worse is that she is a yellow card holder, so getting her back into SG after her stint is close to zero.

unless u are willing to start anything with her back at her home (not recommended), just enjoy the moments u r together.
all u can do is give each other your best wishes at the end of her stay

francesco · #3 20-09-2016, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by crazysgboy

So I have been going out with this WL who works at one of the Lorongs. Initially, I thought that she started talking to me (asked for my number after my 3rd session with her) just for my money, but it seems like it is not the case.

We have been seeing each other for 3 months plus, every time we go out, she buys food/clothes for me. Call and message me every waking hour etc. The moment i knew she was into me, was when she texted me to visit her, and she repaid me the damage costs to book her for 3 hours!

I feel like I have fallen in love with her too, but I know that this cannot last due to language barrier/ her nature of work etc.

Wat to do?

i hv seen a couple of examples.

1 or 2 turned out to be ok (until got married n hv bb), but unfortunately most failed.

the dont "work" ones were due to $$$ issue. r u ready to support her n the extended family in the long run? sure now can pay for u but next time leh (after go home)?

francesco · #4 20-09-2016, 10:10 AM

which wl btw 😁?

cassano10 · #5 20-09-2016, 11:04 AM

Maybe all of us share the same tirak? 55555

lustysinner · #6 20-09-2016, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by cassano10

Maybe all of us share the same tirak? 55555

Totally Agree....👍

loneyheart · #7 20-09-2016, 11:22 AM

Mostly there will b no good ending .... u already know tat
Just enjoy n treasure her while she still around ....
I had 1 .... ended .... missed her very much .......

yello · #8 20-09-2016, 11:32 AM

Actually is there any possibility for WLs to come back to Singapore after their work permit expires? Like even for holidays? Anyone knows? Are they banned from entering Singapore forever?

cassano10 · #9 20-09-2016, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by yello

Actually is there any possibility for WLs to come back to Singapore after their work permit expires? Like even for holidays? Anyone knows? Are they banned from entering Singapore forever?

Wait 2yrs after they ord. can come back for holiday. But need guarantor I think.

U be her guarantor, then she comes back not only open legs for u, but will open for all her previous regulars which she keep in contact.

Seba · #10 20-09-2016, 02:04 PM

You are lucky, bro TS,

Last time I went out with GL WL, I paid for everything. Then want to leave her also must give $1k as "separation fees".

So, enjoy the sweet moments with her.

Marrying her will be difficult legally because I believe all yellow card holders sign an agreement with AV not to have boyfriends in Singapore and not to marry Singapore men after their stint.

I think even if you manage to convince AV and MOM to marry her in the future, she will be having a super hard time getting PR here. It is easier to live in her home country.

Good luck.

comm · #11 20-09-2016, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Seba

You are lucky, bro TS,

Last time I went out with GL WL, I paid for everything. Then want to leave her also must give $1k as "separation fees".

So, enjoy the sweet moments with her.

Marrying her will be difficult legally because I believe all yellow card holders sign an agreement with AV not to have boyfriends in Singapore and not to marry Singapore men after their stint.

I think even if you manage to convince AV and MOM to marry her in the future, she will be having a super hard time getting PR here. It is easier to live in her home country.

Good luck.

Wow the girl really take u as carrot head

yello · #12 20-09-2016, 02:21 PM

Huh??? Why must pay separation fees one???

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Originally Posted by Seba

You are lucky, bro TS,

Last time I went out with GL WL, I paid for everything. Then want to leave her also must give $1k as "separation fees".

So, enjoy the sweet moments with her.

Marrying her will be difficult legally because I believe all yellow card holders sign an agreement with AV not to have boyfriends in Singapore and not to marry Singapore men after their stint.

I think even if you manage to convince AV and MOM to marry her in the future, she will be having a super hard time getting PR here. It is easier to live in her home country.

Good luck.