Ways of convincing and trying

[Greenfrog]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

In my view, a non-drinker guy has nearly zero chance to upz a lady colleague who loves to drink. Alcohol disarms the lady and provides her a chance to assess you in a social environment. Ladies also respect a man who can hold his liquor, and perhaps even take care of her and not take advantage when she is already tipsy.

If you don't drink because you're Halal and she is not, then nearly confirm plus chop you have zero chance of upping her.

Even if you do, she will continue to drink and meet other guys in a social environment with alcohol - and what are you going to do then?? Drink coke?

this is very true. penguin bro is indeed very season.

[fodisay8]

nice reading

[cunnister]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

In my view, a non-drinker guy has nearly zero chance to upz a lady colleague who loves to drink. Alcohol disarms the lady and provides her a chance to assess you in a social environment. Ladies also respect a man who can hold his liquor, and perhaps even take care of her and not take advantage when she is already tipsy.

If you don't drink because you're Halal and she is not, then nearly confirm plus chop you have zero chance of upping her.

Even if you do, she will continue to drink and meet other guys in a social environment with alcohol - and what are you going to do then?? Drink coke?

Fully agreed bro. No drink, no chance!

[romanx24]

Originally Posted by kryptonite1892

I've a story to share and would love to hear your thoughts on this.

I know this colleague who has had fun with another colleague of mine. Both are married but that fun time was years ago. I guess it's the excitement. She's quite pretty and recently i got close to her due to work projects.

I hinted to her to go out on a date with me but she laughed it off and tried to ignore the topic but we are still very close and share jokes here and there and sometimes it's the flirty type. Asked her to go out on a date with me because now she's not married anymore.

Her response was she finds me 'scary' and 'dangerous' and when i asked more of what she meant by that, she said dangerous in a way that i was charming and attractive so it was dangerous. Not sure what she meant by that but i guess she doesn't want to fall in love or anything like that?

Tbh, I'm not looking for love too. Just companionship and maybe have a good time destressing and chilling with her. How do i try to convince her to try and go out with me and have a good time?

If she said that, she has already fcked you in her head and you only have to keep keep keep keep trying, one of her weak days she will say yes, and one chance is all we need ya?

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Drink coke

Drink coke mix with jack daniel

[kryptonite1892]

Originally Posted by romanx24

If she said that, she has already fcked you in her head and you only have to keep keep keep keep trying, one of her weak days she will say yes, and one chance is all we need ya?

and the first chance already taken! wfh again these coming days. surprisingly i was told that i appeared in her dreams today. left an impression i should say?

[jacksonpang1999]

Originally Posted by TheIdesOfMarch

If I were you I'd be direct and tell her "Don't worry, I promise I won't bite if you don't want me to. *winks* How about we go for drinks after work? I know of so and so bar, pretty chill atmosphere, good drink prices. Purely drinks, no obligations or expectations."

Disarm her with being candid, direct, but just a bit cheeky to tease her and show you are returning her flirtations. That's kind of how I upped my supervisor at work last time in my first job.

after you upped your supervisor, did you get a promotion?

[romanx24]

Originally Posted by kryptonite1892

and the first chance already taken! wfh again these coming days. surprisingly i was told that i appeared in her dreams today. left an impression i should say?

Wow, the chase and hunt is the more exciting part, she is flirting and also chasing and hunting... the dance continues... once she is in bed, it becomes boring until the next chase, such is life

[terwong]

Originally Posted by kryptonite1892

we're trying to arrange for the next 'wfh' session which will happen next week. Stay tuned!

"Stay tuned" yet no further updates?

[kryptonite1892]

Hey all,

Sorry for the long hiatus but here's an update you've been waiting for.

so things took a turn for the best currently.

so after a few months of not really communicating with each other, we started again when i casually asked her out for dinner. she said it's been awhile since we last went out so we did. did some window shopping and then she didn't mind me coming over to her place after.

Nothing really happened at first but we got intimate and just hugged feeling the companionship.

Second time, got to her place earlier about 7pm+ and had dinner there. There was some random insect that got into the house and she screamed. So i said I've never heard her scream before.

"What kind of scream do you want to hear?" She said. That's it guys! Then we continued where we left off. While i was just feeling up her smooth legs and thighs, she then moved my hands between her legs.

[ddog]

girl sensed:
Tbh, I'm not looking for love too. Just companionship and maybe have a good time destressing and chilling with her.

[greenmile]

nice reading

[fencingtoad]

Looking forward

[kryptonite1892]

Originally Posted by ddog

girl sensed:
Tbh, I'm not looking for love too. Just companionship and maybe have a good time destressing and chilling with her.

what do you mean by this?

[Orange22]

Originally Posted by kryptonite1892

"What kind of scream do you want to hear?" She said. That's it guys! Then we continued where we left off. While i was just feeling up her smooth legs and thighs, she then moved my hands between her legs.

Please continue bro!